Happy FULL MOON / HARVEST MOON
Mars (Aries) and Venus (Libra)
HARVEST MOON FESTIVAL
Welcome to October. The first day of October is Ashura, the holiday commemorating the death of Husayn ibn Ali and family at the Battle of Karbala in 680 CE (Islam). The second day is SGI World Peace Day. We celebrate Feast of St Francis of Assis and the Harvest Moon Festival (Oriental: China, S.Korea, Hong Kong, Singapore, Malaysia etc.) on the fourth day. So many other things happening with the build up of this energy of the Full Moon.
Welcome to the Full Moon in Aries and Sun in Libra on 5 October with the celebration of Jewish celebration of Sukkot, Harvest Festival commemorates the 40 years of wandering in the wilderness by the Jewish people from Egypt to Israel.
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Come join us at 7pm on Thursday 5 OctoberFull Moon in Aries – Sun in LibraHarvest MoonElement – Fire/AirWe will be in the time vortex of the Full Moon 7:41pm (19:41GMT)See you thereBook here:
Mars (Aries) and Venus (Libra)
This Full Moon comes packed with a lot energy to balance opposition, difference and misunderstandings. We see this in the opposites of the Aries/Libra, Mars/Venus, Fire/Air, and Male/Female; and the need to balance everything. We need to learn to see better and to balance our lives in various ways. We will work more in detail at the gathering on 5 October at 7pm. The book that sums this up in the relationship between men and woman, Mars and Venus, Aries and Libra is, for me, Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus.
Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus (1992) is a book written by American author and relationship counselor John Gray, after he had earned degrees in meditation and taken a correspondence course in psychology. The book states that most common relationship problems between men and women are a result of fundamental psychological differences between the sexes, which the author exemplifies by means of its eponymous metaphor: that men and women are from distinct planets—men from Mars and women from Venus—and that each sex is acclimated to its own planet’s society and customs, but not to those of the other. One example is men’s complaint that if they offer solutions to problems that women bring up in conversation, the women are not necessarily interested in solving those problems, but mainly want to talk about them. The book asserts each sex can be understood in terms of distinct ways they respond to stress and stressful situations. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Men_Are_from_Mars,_Women_Are_from_Venus
The pictures below, capture the Venus/Aries theme so well. Thank you Marie-France Samba
This Full Moon asks us to look at all our relationships full on. How do feel about this person and how important are they to you? If they are important – a phone call goes a long way to talk or to arrange a time to meet up and talk. I believe that it is better to talk than to text or email. Something always gets lots in translation.
Remember the movie: Lost in Translation? In the movie, the couple are lost for many reasons – they are lost in their own lives and in their individual relationships, as well as, with each other. They are lost in their communication with each other. Where could you be lost in your life and in your relationship? Where could you communicate more and bring more presence into your relationship.
Sometimes Down is Up. Sometimes Up is Down. When you are Lost you are Found. When you are Found you are Lost. This is the contradiction of this Energy of Now with the amazing Full Moon, which brings a lot of energies to play in your life. Let us bring you back home to your own self worth and empowerment in our gathering.
Were are your oppositions? Where are your angry words? Who is upsetting you? Who do you need to communicate your anger to? Where are you needing to explain yourself? Are you explaining calmly or angrily? Life really is a challenge living with others, as well as, interacting with each other.
What will you be celebrating this Full Moon? What will you be complaining about this Full Moon? Who will you have argued with? Who will you have disagreed with? Who will you have ‘fought’ with? Who will you ‘have a word’ with? The Energy of Mars is very strong with this Full Moon. Can Venus calm things down?
Every great movie, like Game of Thrones, require a lot of planning and preparing the space, actors learning their lines, costumes, etc. The amount of workmanship is amazing. Timing and precision is important to get the scenes to follow through. The same in life, in business and in relationships. What have you prepared for, that has pumped you up? Have you created a space that the Goddess of Venus would like to relax in or is it more for the God of Mars? What have you prepared for this Full Moon? What have you achieved? Come let us celebrate your success.
You have a skill that serves you and you are pleased with it. As time goes on, you find you need new skills. There has to be a change to your skills – an upgrade. It is time for a change. You need to change a few things and you find that you do not have the skills. You learn new skills or you hire someone to do the skill you need. You can hire a secretary, a cleaner, a marketing person, a nanny, a business coach, a spiritual coach and an alchemist. You know you have to change – you know you have to do something to achieve fullness in your life. What is this reflecting in your life with this Full Moon. There is the play of ‘yes’ and ‘no’; ‘do it’ and ‘don’t do it’. The swing of the pendulum is not forgiving – it is extreme. You have to make a decision and take action. What actions have you taken with the Full Moon?
Death is the enemy of Life. We all will die one day, just not today. Aries is the baby of the Zodiac and the first sign of the Zodiac. It hates being ignored like a baby. Is forceful like a baby. Is controlling like a baby. It is sweet like a baby. It is cute like a baby. It also needs training like a baby does.
In the wonderment of you, are you living your Truth? If the answer is Yes, What is your Truth? Are you living a Lie? If the answer is Yes, What is your Lie? Does speaking your Truth help you with establishing your Boundaries? How attuned are you to yourself and to others?
Do you give others more importance than yourself? Remember to give yourself importance and allow yourself to bloom. See yourself and smile at yourself – like this wonderful picture her with me and Connie taken by Marie-France. Be seen by others, as well as, by yourself. I love this picture of Smiling Truth.
Do you attend to your needs and listen to your intuition? What Whispers of Insight are you receiving this Full Moon in Aries with the Sun in Libra? How is your Truth coming out this Full Moon?
There are so many ways to Happiness – have you found yours? Perhaps the Fire Element of Aries will help you find yours? There are many ways of prayer – not one way – many ways. So there are many ways of Happiness, to Happiness and for Happiness. What is your way of Happiness, to Happiness and for Happiness? Celebrate this Full Moon.
ARIES and LIBRA
Aries and Libra are both Cardinal Signs, making them direct, active and great at initiating things.
Aries is the first sign of the Zodiac and the baby, so always cries when it does not like something, until it gets what it wants. Are you doing this? Are you shouting? Are you constantly seeking attention, hating to be ignored? Do you barge in when you are told to ‘stop’ and given a ‘no’? Are you being forceful and a bit of a bully, but cannot see it? Aries will tell you they are focused and determined and they are. They sometimes forget how intimidating they may appear and may come across as bullies. Be mindful of your energy with this Full Moon.
Being Natural born leaders, they can have a drive and focus that is outstanding and impressive. Being warrior like they are not afraid of confrontation and will willingly go into battle. Think of a baby grabbing something and not letting it go – that you are surprised at the strength of its grip, focus and determination.
Aries can be determined, adventurous, impulsive and aggressive. Aries can single-mindedly start a project and complete an impossible task. They love to fight for a cause they believe in. Think of a baby crying for its food – it never stops till it gets fed.
MARS is the planet that rule Aries. Mars is also the name of the God that rules Aries. Mars is competitive, is a natural born warrior with lots of vitality, energy and power. Think of the baby smiling happily at you – LOOKING confidently at you, making you smile back, ready to play and share its happy energy with you. This is the happy energy, where you fall in love with the baby.
FIRE is engaging, charismatic, enthralling and dangerous all at once. It is warming, comforting, healing and adventurous. Fire is vital, spontaneous and enthusiastically happy and playful. Think of a baby happily playing with its foot and totally content. That is the Aries energy, self-absorbed in its own world.
I love the energy of Aries – it says to you – Come let us do it – I am with you – I will help you get the courage to do this.
The symbol for Libra is the Scales – all about balancing things and fairness in all matters. Libra sees both sides of a situation and sometimes this can make it difficult to choose sides. Libra can be indecisive. A natural diplomat, Libra is constantly seeking harmony in relationships. The need to balance things out is very strong. Libra avoids confrontation, unlike Aries, who charges forward into battlefield. .
AIR: The Sun of this Full Moon in is Libra, making the Element Air. Air is freedom and space. It is Communication, the Mind, the Intellect and the Rational Mind. Voice is heart through sound and space.
Libra communicates with and without words. The body language can be deceptive with Libra energy but soon the Truth is revealed. Libra does not like to feel trapped or told what to do. It does what it wants to do like a baby, similar to Aries.
NEGATIVE LIBRA: Libra can be offensive without speaking a word and can sabotage a network if it so pleases. You see this in the behaviour e.g. such as not doing or completing a project Libra promised they would do. In this way Libra can sabotage your work and your relationship; taking control and stalling your project, and looking innocent like a baby! Be mindful of the Libran underhand here with this Full Moon.
VENUS: Libra is ruled by Venus, Goddess of Love, and we have the energy of Libra and Mars working together and opposing each other. Will we have love and peace or hate and war? Goddess of Love vs. Goddess of War. Feminine vs. Masculine. Venus seeks co-operation, co-creation and unity. Venus promotes art, peace, beauty and love.
I love the contradiction of the element Air and Scale of Libra. I love the contradiction of the element Fire and Mars. In the balance of your life were are you as you journey to the end of the year?
We uncover more about you at our Moon Gathering. Come join us at 7pm on Thursday 5 OctoberFull Moon in Aries – Sun in LibraHarvest MoonElement – Fire/AirWe will be in the time vortex of the Full Moon 7:41pm (19:41GMT)Please arrive punctual for 7pm so we can be ready for the actual time of the Full Moon in LondonSee you https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/the-full-moon-in-aries-alchemy-gathering-tickets-29211319844
Last day of September, 30 Saturday, saw me teaching an Introduction to Indian Head Massage at Morley College. Indian Head Massage involves massage of the head, face, scalp, neck, shoulders and arms. It is a very powerful massage to learn and practice on friends and family. Of course, you would have to be a qualified massage to charge for this service. You could easily learn it and practice on friends and family. I give lots of hand-outs such as the history, the benefits, and the contraindications of Indian Head Massage.
It was a wonderful gathering of very lovely students, all eager to learn and improve their skills. They are organising a WhatsApp group to meet up and practice on each other to improve their skills. This was a wonderful way to spend my Saturday. Thank you ladies and one gentleman for making this a wonderful experience and for all your smiles. Below I share their feedback and the one word they are taking away after a few hours learning this new skill.
Testimonials / Feedback from Students
1. Thank you for your wonderful Indian Head Massage workshop!!! I came to learn and improve the little bit of knowledge I’d learnt a few years ago. I needed this to learn to treat my family and close friends. Today’s workshop has increased my confidence in treating other people, which is what I really wanted to achieve. And I so enjoyed Toks singing with positive, uplifting lyrics at the final part of the massage routine. Thank you, Toks, may you continue to spread your love light, guidance and healing. Much Peace and Love xxx
2. I really liked Indian Head Massage. It was very good experience. The teacher was wonderful. She was very patient with us and I learnt new techniques and new movements and all the students were very friendly. And I really want to do another step. Roubilla
3. I enjoyed the course and learning and practicing these techniques. Toks has been very helpful and precise. I appreciate the way she focused and corrected each one of the participants, giving feedback and explaining how to do it. She has a positive approach towards teaching Indian Head Massage. I will definitely be practicing. Thank you. Andrea
4. I liked Toks method and style of teaching. Her ability to make students comfortable and build their confidence. I am more aware of my own posture /stance. I learnt and have more understanding of Indian Head Massage. Would like to study further for certification course. Bobbie
5. I liked the hair touching exercise in the morning. It was different and broke the ice and bonded us as a group. The one-to-one individual feedback after the practice pairing exercises was very good. The course followed a solid curriculum / format yet the tutor offered a lot more than this – the singing during the final exercise was a nice touch and very special.
6. I have enjoyed the day very much and feel I have learnt a lot and hopefully can help others now. The instruction was very good and clear and helpful. Thank you so much. Maureen
7. Course was fun and I now feel confident enough to give massage to friends. Good training style that was interactive. Learnt a lot about techniques.
8. Toks, you demonstrated well and sustained energy and enthusiasm throughout the day. Thank you.
9. It was very helpful to practice with multiple partners to better understand how to adapt techniques to different skull shapes, hair types, etc. I now feel confident to practice with my partner and friends. Thank you.
10. I thought it was an enjoyable and engaging course and very practical. Tosk was great at instructing and guiding nus as a group. I now feel more confident in practicing this new skill. The structure was excellent. Toks made me feel comfortable and helped us to bond as a group. Also loved the song at the end. Sophie
11. The course was great fun and Toks is a vibrant teacher who is passionate and I loved it. I know how to perform a treatment which I can now treat friends and family. So glad I did this course, Cherly
What word are you taking away?
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Are you ready for an alchemical change this New Moon? Or perhaps you have had your alchemical change and you are needing help with processing through the change? Then you have come to the right place. We will be sitting down or lying down to create a masterpiece for your life in a sacred environment that heals and supports your process.
There are many lessons to reflect on. You may feel your Soul being tested and strengthen with this New Moon; as you learn that even those who are successful and experienced can and do make mistakes. We will realise, collectively, that to achieve the goal does not necessarily mean to succeed at the task, as there may be issues that arise, as you strive to achieve your goal.
This New Moon invites us to change our paradigm, as we realise that it is possible to redeem even the most horrendous mistakes and transgressions. Let us forgive each other and our selves. We need to value what we have, and be loving and grateful for what we have, otherwise we may loose it. Let us anchor forgiveness and love.
New Moon in Virgo accords us a practical ‘look’ at our situation with mindfulness, patience and wisdom. As we empower our Inner Self, let us really feel the depth of our very own innocence, power and vitality. This is made even more possible with the gathering of energies from different vortexes of power namely:
NEW MOON & SUN in Virgo
MUHARRAM (Islamic New Year)
ROSH HASHANAH (Jewish New Year)
NAVRATRI (Hindu 9 Nights Celebration of the Divine Mother)
We will be calling in all this power to list 7 steps to call in your Good Fortune. Can you think what they are?
Come join us after work, at 7pm, on 20 September Wednesday, with your friends and family. If you can bring something sacred with you to put in the alter. Book your space here or pay cash at the door. https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/the-new-moon-in-virgo-alchemy-gathering-tickets-29340677757
Why should I come?
- Are you feeling
- stressed, overwhelmed, empty?
- tired, lost, forlorn?
- abandoned, emotional, lonely?
- confused, stuck, listless?
- un-grounded, floaty, dazed?
- anxious, suspicious, worrying?
- depressed, suicidal, angry?
- Do you find it hard to trust people, even yourself?
- Do you keep starting things and not finishing?
- Do you keep doing the same things, to ease you, only to find they are not?
- Do you feel like a dog (waiting to be told what to do) rather than a jaguar (pro-actively taking action)?
- Did you realise that you have been wasting your time with the wrong people and the wrong projects?
- Are you finding it hard to start something new? Or simply start anything?
- Are you always finding excuses for yourself and others for not doing something for your life, business or relationship?
- Have you given up on yourself? Your beliefs? Your life?
- Are you ready to try something new?
If you answered YES to at least 5 of the above then you should come to the Healing Moon Gathering.
What are the benefits to me?
The Hands of Light Healing Matrix Meditation will enable you to:
- Get clarity where there has been little or none.
- Bring in the long awaited clarity that seems to have been elusive.
- Relax your mind when it has been busy with your mental chatter.
- Calm your mind with an overwhelming calmness.
- Reduce your stress level to a zero rating.
- Experience profound feeling of peace and relaxation.
- Re-prioritise your life when you thought you could not.
- Start again with a freshness of Spirit.
- See the opportunities around you and take them.
- Take control of your life and feel more in charge of your life.
- Take responsibility for the things that happen to you.
- Activate your own creativity – your infinite creativity.
- Start again – refreshed and renewed with a new focus and determination.
- You to go through transitions in your life.
- Induce a state of balance and self love.
- Learn 7 ways to call in your Good Fortune.
- Learn new ways to help yourself to be happy.
- Open your spiritual development and growth and anchor in your gateways to light.
- Try something new if you have never done this before such as create a crystal portal matrix for healing the world and yourself.
Yes, Yes, Yes – I am coming.
See you Wednesday then when we will share more valuable information, relevant to your personal life. Come join us after work, at 7pm, on 20 September Wednesday, with your friends and family. Book your space here or pay cash at the door. https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/the-new-moon-in-virgo-alchemy-gathering-tickets-29340677757
7 Actions for New Moon in Virgo
- Valuing your time and money.
- Refining your skills.
- Delivering quality.
- Doing something new.
- Balancing your giving and receiving.
- Honouring your self in relationships.
- Clarifying in your mind and priorities.
7 Challenges for New Moon in Virgo
- Over extension of self and time.
- Not speaking out.
- Over critical of self and others
- Expecting too much from self and others.
- Resisting change.
- Lacking emotions.
- Forgetting to look after self: overwhelm with workload.
7 Seeding’s for the New Moon in Virgo
- Seeding your Miracle.
- Seeding your Mind, Body & Spirit.
- Seeding your Practicality & Attitude.
- Seeding your Creativity & Inspiration
- Seeding your Work & Relationships.
- Seeding your Money & Wealth.
- Seeding your Future Newness
7 Blessings of the Moon Mediations
- Safe & Secure.
- Cleansed & Protected.
- Awake & Enlightened.
- Healed & Supported.
- Peaceful & Relaxed.
- Freshness & Lightness.
- Motivated & Inspired.
There is so much to cover: we will wait till we gather to teach more on the New Moon. Love Always Toks xxx
will be channelled on the New Moon
Come join us after work, at 7pm, on 20 September Wednesday, with your friends and family. Book your space here or pay cash at the door. https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/the-new-moon-in-virgo-alchemy-gathering-tickets-29340677757
Dealing with Loss
There are different types of loss – loss of jewellery, loss of friendship, loss of a business deal, loss of your home, or loss of a relationship. Then there is loss through death which may be sudden, gradual, unexpected and expected. Even if expected the grief is unbearable as the loss rips your heart out and you feel yourself howling aloud or silently in your Soul. Death is a very brutal friend as it waves its Sword of Death in a final sweep that severs the lifeline and the life of the person or animal. Death can be from dis-ease, accident, suicide, war, natural disaster, house fire, stormy sea, wind, land slides, thunder and lightening, etc.
Death brings very painful challenges and feelings of overwhelm to those left alive. You grieve the lost of your child, the loss of your dog, the loss of your fish. You journey to the dark recess of your soul and your sit in the Underground of pain, and slip into the underworld of extreme darkness and despair. We feel alone, isolated, abandoned, lonely. How do we carry on when we feel all is lost? We change our paradigm.
The departed animal or person has simply swapped ‘bodies’ and moved from the one you can see to the one you cannot see. You can still feel them in your heart and you may even feel them around you. For example you may feel a breeze on your neck, you may see a flash of light, you may smell a beautiful fragrance, and you may feel you arms are being touched. There is no one there physically, put you know someone is there with you. The departed are communicating with us from a higher realm of consciousness, offering comfort, support and insights.
Did you know that loss can help improve your psychic powers? and help you heal your pain? Did you know that the pain you feel could be the pain from deep before this lifetime? One of the greatest way to connect with the other side is to have a crystal skull. The first crystal skull I bought coincided with the death of my father and my baby in my tummy, which I buried in the ground. I never bought a crystal skull after that, for a while! For me, the most painful loss has been loss of a living person.
Crystals give comfort in times of loss and have been known to help with communication with the other side. Red Jasper is very good for grounding and releasing the pain of loss. Amethyst encourages communication with the departed Soul. Black Jet cleans and protects you from the negative effects and fundamental darkness you may experience. Snowy Quartz creates a clear pathway of communication while Howlite cries for you.
Grief can take a day, a week, a month, a year or years. It has its own personal rhythm for each person. No one size fits all. I cried everyday for 10 years and no one knew. I was not able to talk about it for years. Luckily only in the first three months was I ever aggressive to my friends who bought my candles!!! Charming. Death and Grieving changes your personality. There is a whole new tree of emotions and behaviours which comes with its own thinking and communication pattern. Mine was awesome!!!! hahahaha Not funny.
Watching a parent deteriorate is a form of Loss – deep loss as you adjust to the parent becoming a ‘child’ again, loosing the faculty of the mind with the dis-ease of dementia, Alzheimer’s or Parkinson’s. Both the elder and the children are affected by the loss. There is a denial or refusal to accept it is happening in the family. There is the stigma. This loss is like a death too. An aspect of a person is dying and no longer returning e.g. lack of memory, parent accusing the children of stealing as unreasonable suspicious arise from nowhere, hallucinations, etc.
A good crystal to help, I find, is a palm crystal, known as a worry crystal. You can hold it in your hands and rob it with your thumb; and rob all your anxiety or worry into the palm crystal asking it to taken away whatever negative emotion you are feeling. Sometimes the simple act of holding something in your hand is a comforter and a protector, like you are not alone. Flowers always cheer a room up, so does sweet smelling frankincense and lavender.
The Rite of Passage, the Journey to the Dark Recess of your Soul, is a long and arduous journey. It is not an easy one to bear. Be mindful. Death is experienced by both the living and the dead! Yes there is sadness on both parts, but the departed Soul feels free to move on to the Light and to the next incarnation or wherever it is going – depending on one’s belief. What is your belief?
So the question I ask you is, Who suffers most? The Living or the Dead? Is Death for the Living or is it for the Dead? Living on Earth we all have to go through some loss and we ourselves will one day die. THAT IS THE ONLY CONSTANT THING ABOUT LIFE ON EARTH. WE ALL WILL DIE AT SOME POINT IN TIME. Do we journey towards Death or does Death journey towards Us?
The New Moon is a time of New Beginnings. The Dead have a new beginning. The Living have a new beginning and how they choose to live with the Death of a loved one is a choice we all one day have to make. How will you re-birth yourself with the loss of your loved one?
There are many ways to deal with grief and loss. Time, they say heals everything. Some would agree with that and some would not. You see not everyone deals with grief in the same way. It can break up a couple, a marriage, a family or a business. It can bring people together but I find this can be a challenge as people grief differently. Some go dancing and drinking. Others binge. Some go quiet and do not talk or express their feelings. Some simply bury themselves into their jobs and keep themselves busy – being too busy to grieve. Some lock people and emotions out of their lives. Some take to obsessive addictive behaviour like taking drugs and drinking becoming drug addicts or drunks.
When you had to go through loss or grief, how did you deal with it? Did you go for therapy? Did you do exercise e.g. jog, yoga, dance classes? Did you talk to a counsellor or to your friends – going on and on and on and on about the experience? Did you start blaming everyone but yourself? Did you take any responsibility for your loss or pain? Did you reflect on life and death? Did you reflect on loss of an object vs. loss of a life? Was there any difference in the grieving for you?
Sometimes we carry negative emotions such as guilt, shame, blame and anger as a badge of honour. We wear it with pride and keep regurgitating our pain and our loss. We are stuck in the Wheel of Life – the wheel is moving on the same spot – like a record repeating itself. We may or may not realise it – but is like we are moving and then stop and we are back to where we started. Like time keeps repeating itself and then like time stops. Is Death a loss of innocence then?
Grief and Loss are truly humane feelings that can consume us if we do not balance our emotions. There are many ways to heal your loss and grief. You can go have a massage, tap the pain out of your muscles with EFT, hold a crystal to help you, do mediations to relax and soothe your mind, listen to music that lifts your Spirit, light a candle and pray; as well as, book a session with me, Toks Coker, to help and support your process to create a quantum leap in your healing process.
The Tree of Life and the Tree of Death are two different types of Tress with different emotions and feelings – yet can be the same….
If you had to draw your Tree of Death what words would be on the leaves of the Tree of Death and Loss?
If you had to draw your Tree of Life what words would be on the leaves of the Tree of Life and Living?
What differences and similarities do you notice in both drawings?
How do these pictures make you feel? What emotions do they stir up?
Death and Loss are facts of Life.
My loves, how have you been?
Full Moon already – so much happening – so much to do – so much undone…….. so much done – so much…….
Time to celebrate the Fullness of Life. Come gather with us on Wednesday 6 September, for the Full Moon in Pisces – Sun in Virgo Gathering. Also known as the Corn Moon, we are working with two elements – Water and Earth. We gather to celebrate our lives and give gratitude. Will you be joining us? What will we be doing? We will be:
- Doing a special meditation to activate the Pineal Gland
- Using powerful crystals to align you and activate your Pineal Gland
- Receiving deep healing on a profound level
- Giving thanks for all our blessings
- Sending healing to the world and those who have asked for healing
- Experiencing deep Sound Medicine with Crystal Singing Bowls
- Creating deep shifts in consciousness
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How will it benefit you? In one answer – It will boost your energy in more ways than once. Here is a testimonial I got today after a Full Moon Healing Session this morning.
I had an ENERGY BOOST session with the Great Healer Toks today! My one to one Sessions with Toks has been helping me create my own brand, new business models and build on my existing business/es. Right after having 2 hours business coaching & relationship healing session with Toks, I was highly efficient and active in managing and organizing my business. I now have a clear mind. It was such a powerfully transformational session that we did on Skype with Toks. Something within me has shifted and I am now able to use my full force on finding creative business solutions, and take strategic actions about how to make more profit and money running my 2 different businesses. Thank you for the highly inspirational session my dear Toks. Before our session I was not thinking clearly, I was feeling overwhelmed with my work load and was not able to see clearly how to make more profit using the internet, social media and technology. Working with you has been activating the genius in me! Love ❤️ you Thank you very much Toks. God Bless You
I am sharing the energy of the Full Moon with pictures as I believe pictures speak volumes. What are the pictures telling you about yourself and your life right now? I will be sharing more at the Moon Gathering.
Happy Positive Energy
This Full Moon is about celebrating HAPPY EMOTIONS – Happy positive energy. Happy vibes. When you are with someone (whether you know them or not) and you feel good vibes, you both resonate a wonderful energy of love and light to each other. There is an Exchange of Energy.
Your Energy Field comes together in a Happy Vibrational Note. You feel included, accepted, seen, recognised, loved and embraced in a pool of love.
There is nothing nicer than having someone you like running to hug you and say hello to you. There is nothing more healing that someone you do not know, coming up to you, to hug you, and compliment you. Close your eyes and imagine this happening to you right now. How do you feel? For me it created a shudder / shiver right through my body. It made me smile and Yes, for me, it creates a wonderful Future. I could see my Future Self being hugged and I felt it in the Energy of Now. I brought it right back to me – right now. It was no longer a dream – it was a reality. I felt it.
That is POSITIVE ENERGY – positive vibes that speak without words. The feeling is so strong that you see it, you feel it, you taste it, you touch it, you hear it and you taste it. This invisible world affects you in a wonderful way.
The power of seeing the hug is wonderful – just the visual expression says it all. No words, just actions. How many times do we wish people would act rather than talk; or would match their words with actions. For me a hug says it all.
The exchange of Energy of a hug is wonderful to watch, because as you watch you also share and experience the energy of the hug – AND – you may feel you are being hugged too!!! Even if you are not the one being hugged, just watching people hug each other, makes you feel you are being hugged as well. This is MIRRORING.
The Brain has Mirror Neurons which fire automatically and simultaneously when someone has an experience AND when someone witnesses / observes the experience. The brain observes the actions, intentions and emotions of HUGGING and then feels it as if it is experiencing that same hug. Empathy is when someone feels another person’s emotions and understands them. This ability of the Brain to do this, as well as many other things makes it a very powerful portal of information.
Who will you hug this Full Moon and share Happy Positive Energy with? Whose life will you touch with a hug?
What is your first memory of meeting someone?
The first time I met Bruce Lipton was a moment in my life I will never forget. I was in yellow attending a conference he was speaking at, and had been gifted a VIP ticket by a very kind lady. He simply walked up to me and hugged me. I felt so included and loved and seen. Everyone who saw us hugging smiled at us and some took pictures of us hugging. Absolutely amazing. Why not go hug someone you do not know and introduce yourself to them? Of course, every day we hugged each other. Below is the second day at the conference. Absolutely wonderful.
What are Good Vibes?
Good Vibes are Happy Energy. They are invisible Energy frequencies that travel in the Field, or Environment or Space. Good Vibes create a ripple effect and make people smile and relaxed. Good Vibes are feelings that make you feel calm and serene. They are feelings that you cannot see. You feel them. You sense them. You intuit them. You know they are Good Vibes because no harm comes to you or those around. Good Vibes do not harm. Them embrace and make you feel Good, Happy, Joyful, Blissful, Serene and Relaxed. They Empower a person. They create a powerful HEALING VORTEX in the room, space or environment. They create a SYNERGY, an ENERGETIC Transference and Exchange between people whether they are sitting, talking, hugging, lying down or standing up. The Entanglement is wonderful and creates a ripple effect in the room. It is like a beautiful dance that is inspiring, mesmerising and captivating.
Good Vibes release stress, tension, arguments and disagreements. They improve your health, relationships and state of mind. If you are feeling tired you suddenly find yourself standing up straight and walking taller. If you are thinking negative thoughts you begin to pivot and change your mind set. You feel your Spirit being lifted by Good Vies. This Full Moon is about feeling and spreading Good Vibes. It is about reading the Energy Field around you and being observant of signs, omens and signals. I just love the picture below of the mirrors, don’t you?
SENDING FREE DISANT HEALING FOR 3 NIGHTS
I will be sending Distant Healing for three nights in a row. Put your healing request on https://www.facebook.com/handsoflighthealing/
Invocation Blessing for the Full Moon
to be channelled at the mediation.
Love Always Toks xxx
New Moon & Sun in Leo
Total Solar Eclipse
Monday 21 August 2017
We gather again for the Moon Medicine Meditation on Monday 21 August to celebrate the wonderful New Moon & Sun in Leo at 6.30pm in London, where we will also celebrate the TOTAL SOLAR ECLIPSE, which travels coast to coast across the USA. The Moon is in the middle of the Earth and Sun. The Sun is behind the Moon and causes the Earth to not have any daylight for a while. There is TOTAL DARKNESS like a black-out! As the Sun continues to move behind the Moon it creates a RING OF FIRE around the Moon. The Sun moving behind the Moon causes this wonderful occurrence – first a total blackout and then the Ring of Fire around the Moon. It really is a phenomenal thing to witness.
Roughly, the London time of the Eclipse is 7:27pm and the New Moon is 19:31 GMT (7:31pm), so we arrive at 6.30pm and ready ourselves to experience the actual time of the Total Solar Eclipse (7:27pm) and the New Moon (7:31pm). The Element is FIRE. Time to gather, to energise, to learn, to cleanse, to relax and be in a sacred space of calm, love and healing.
Get your tickets here: MOON MEDICINE 21 August
A TIME FOR FIRSTS:
So many things happening today. So many firsts happening today. What things will happen to you today? What new – first time – experiences will happen to you today? We already know that today, Day will become Night in USA. The USA is the ONLY country this Total Solar Eclipse crosses. It moves across USA, from coast to coast, visible, unheeded and unabashed. It is the first Total Solar Eclipse to pass over only the continental USA since the country’s founding in 1776! It is the first time in 99 years that an Eclipse is visible across continental USA. WOW.
For me, when I look at the path of the Total Solar Eclipse, it seems to represent a SWEEP WITH A BROOM. So many conscious and unconscious levels of meaning and happening here. What does a broom do? It cleans, clears, removes dirt, sweeps up and collects everything; and puts it in recycle to be destroyed, turning poison to medicine. What do you need to sweep up, tidy up, de-clutter? What do you need to do collectively with others? What do you need to do on your own? Looking at the journey of this Eclipse, it reminds me also of a very conscious action that calls us all, to come together, to look at how we treat Mother Earth and each other. Are we ready to rise our consciousness collectively and individually? Are we ready to be united in one movement? What movement would it be? Unity Consciousness? Oneness? Eshofuni?
I have posted different invaluable information on my blog on the:
- Time Between Eclipses http://blog.tokscoker.com/category/2017-time-between-eclipses/
- Links you can click on to watch LIVE the Total Solar Eclipse on Monday http://blog.tokscoker.com/2017/08/19/live-view-of-the-total-solar-eclipse/
- Remember – if you are looking at the Total Solar Eclipse you must wear the proper glasses to protect your eyes.
- What benefits happen to you before an Eclipse? http://blog.tokscoker.com/2017/08/20/what-benefits-happen-to-you-before-an-eclipse/
As we gather for the Moon Medicine we enter a state of great power. For a moment there is darkness, then there is light. It is like an instant journey back to the womb – to the void – when there is darkness; and then back to Earth again when we are in the light. It has a feeling of PRIMORDIAL TIME – a Time beyond Time – a Time of no Time. A Time of the ORIGINAL BEGINNING. In the Void of Time and No-Time you are in a state of DIVINE ONENESS. Of Peace, Compassion, Love and Healing. We activate great qualities such as INTUITION, Inner Knowing and Divine Perception. We are able to DISCERN with ease. We are able to practice DETACHMENT. We are able to release and let go. We are able to flush away or burn away what does not serve us. We are DANCING with LIFE and DEATH – the baby and the skeleton!
How will the Moon Medicine Cauldron speak to you this Total Solar Eclipse? What whispers will you hear? What visuals will you see? What omens, signs and signals will be revealed to you and you notice?
BLACK OUT – HIDDEN
This is a BLACK MOON. When a season (spring, summer, autumn, or winter) has 4 New Moons, the 3rd New Moon is called a Black Moon. It echoes the Eclipse Black Out Darkness, which implies something HIDDEN. What does the Eclipse blot out? What does it hide? What is hidden from you in your life? What does it remove? What needs to be removed from you? An attachment? An entity that does not serve you? What could you be letting go of? Bad habits, old relationships, restrictive patterning? You are able to look your fears and doubts in the eye? Are your fears and doubts alive? What do they look like? Shadowy figures, skeletons, slivering figures? What are you releasing? Your battered Ego? Your battered Self? Your frustration, stagnation, suffering?
Really decide what you have to let go off. Really decide to release anything that is eclipsing in your life. Be clear and bold about it. Know the difference between doing something for the Collective and doing something just for your Self.
As we journey into this darkness we ignite our intuition, our insight, our light codes, our light language and our seeding. We say we are ready for the new paradigm codes and light codes. We accept the darkness knowing we are safe in it. We really allow ourselves to be transported into this VORTEX of DARKNESS to be reborn anew with the New Moon in Leo. Are you ready for this? I am.
RING OF FIRE – CREATING
For me, the Ring of Fire represents a sealing, a marriage, a binding and a coming together of something or someone. It is likes it has a Diamond or Sacred Eye that reveals itself strongly, boldly and confidently. It does not make any apology for the way it is. It like it says to you that you are ‘locked’ in here on Earth and you have to do your journey and do your Vision Quest before you can move on to the next level. BUT it does not wait for you – life still continues at its pace – so you age whether or not you are ready and whether or not you want to!
The RING OF FIRE is a reminder of the unexpected power of life living in the Universe. The Quantum Power of the Cosmic Magic around us. This vastness of space heralds so much wonder we have only to open our INNER & OUTER EYES. Both inner and outer eyes reveal different things with this RING OF FIRE. What do YOUR Inner & Outer Eyes each reveal to you? What is the difference or similarity in the REVEALATION with this New Moon in shiny regal Leo, the Lion, the Sphinx?
LIGHT – REVEALED / SEEN
When the Light comes back on, it is sharp, bright and shinny. Nothing is hidden.
If you have been hiding your Light it will come out and be revealed to you – you will see it, as it will be in your sight. Your Light is here to shine – you can no longer suppress it or hide it. No once can. If anyone has been hiding it, they will be released from hiding or blocking your Light. Isn’t that absolutely marvellous? Time to stand on the stage of life and let the Light shine on you. Let Your Light Shine. It is Time. Stand on the Stage. You are a Child of the Light. You are a Legion of Light. You are Here Now at the Moon Medicine Gathering with Legion of Light Toks. Welcome.
“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It’s not just in some of us; it’s in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.” by Marianne Williamson from A Return To Love: Reflections on the Principles of A Course in Miracles
The Light also reveals what is left – the aftermath of something or an event. It says this is what is left – now deal with it. It is like the dragons in the Game of Thrones burning you with their FIRE and all the negative energy is burnt away and falls away from you. You stand clean, strong and free, with a smile on your face, knowing you have won the inner and outer battle with yourself. Triumphant you are. Congratulations.
There is so much riding on this Total Solar Eclipse with this second New Moon in Leo on Monday 21 August. It really is about enjoying the LEO energy of Courage, Nobility and Royalty. What new and wonderful thing is going to happen with this New Moon? Are you going to allow your Inner Child to shine through and come out dancing and laughing with the FIRE energy? Are you going to allow your creativity to come out? What is your HEART revealing to you? What are you going to allow now in your life?
Invocation Blessing for the Total Solar Eclipse New Moon and Sun in Leo
Medicine Moon Gathering on 21 August
I will channel this at the Medicine Moon Gathering.
“Our sorrows and wounds are healed only when we touch them with compassion.” The Buddha
8:8 Meditation on 8 August
We gathered to do an 8:8 Medicine Meditation on 8 August for an hour from 7.30pm. During the gathering we created a crystal 8:8 altar for the world; and each person created their very own individual crystal 8. After the gathering we had a questions and answers session. We shared some moments of power and drank the blessed sacred 8:8 water that we energised and charged in the crystal singing bowls. It was a wonderful moment for us all.
I would send 8:8 healing for 8 days at 8am and 8pm, as a gift, to them, if they wanted.
I would also send them the audio recording of the mediation
I would send the filming of the candles in the shape of 8.
They had to be aware of what was happening to them in the next 8 days.
Below, I have captured a few of the Feedback Testimonials from the evening, as well as, Text Messages received during the next 8 days after the 8:8 Medicine Meditation. I hope this captures the wonderful energy that was shared. We were not allowed to share till after the 8 days had gone by. Thank you for reading xxx
I loved the Invocation as it resonated profoundly with me. I have been moved feeling the truth of this Innovation of the 8:8 connection. Just felt right to be here. I am taking away the power of the possibilities. I am so hopeful after being here. I do believe in Toks’ power. It comes from love. I feel safe here always. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you Toks, Universe. ANNA FERNANDEZ
Working with the 8:8 energy was powerful, grounding, returning back to essence. I was so moved by the power, love and peace. I am taking away my codes. Loved the 8:8 meditation. I felt inspired and light. It was too short for one hour. MONI RODRIQUEZ
It was a powerful experience. I enjoyed being in the group to share this wonderful vibration. Having the space to connect was wonderful with others. The emotions of love and compassion were present. I am taking away a higher vibrational energy. It was a great experience. LORNA RHODES
It was an intense experience. I am taking away positive vibrations. HELENA CHIKEZIE
TEXT MESSAGE – Thank you Toks, such a pleasant surprise to receive the video this morning, great experience, I’m still reeling from excitement!!! Very positive vibrations all around!!! Thank you so much Toks, it is very much appreciated, sending love your way too. HELENA CHIKEZIE
I felt peaceful. I found it comforting. I like the way Toks guided the meditation. I was moved by seeing my departed father. I felt emotional relief and reassurance. I saw visions of my desires alongside my beloved. I am taking away certainty in the connection with higher powers and masters. This is my first workshop. I never really knew anything about it before. Toks is a powerful and empowering spark of light. Her workshop is very well set up and easy to follow. The energy of the workshop is liberating and comforting. ANUSHA AUKHAJ
Hello 888 Legion of Light, I have been quiet as it has been an interesting week. Shifts are definitely taking place. Thank you ever so much. ANUSHA AUKHAJ – TEXT MESSAGE
It was a wonderful opportunity to tap into this energy on such an auspicious date. I loved just being able to focus my energy on me and nothing else and no one else. I was moved by Toks heart and sincerity. I experienced a release of blocks. I am taking away a sense of peace and calm. I have only really started my spiritual journey in the last year which has triggered my interest in esoteric practices. The channelling, initially, took me by surprise, but then I got used to it. Toks’ energy, love and enthusiasm for what she does is so apparent in her approach to the workshop. She is truly a gem, in a world filed with so much suffering. She is a source of hope, love, light and healing. Thank you Toks. Even though I live in East London now, you are always in my heart as you were my second mum in UK when I first moved to London and to Swiss Cottage. Lots of Love CHERLYN WONG XXX
Just got in a cab that has 888888 painted on it! CHERLYN WONG – TEXT MESSAGE
This was my first time I have experienced this kind of meditation. It was very rich in different energy. I could feel the transition of different emotions like love and sadness. I was able to experience a little bi of sickness. It was too warm in the room. I will take away with me all the new experiences and curiosity about all the new energy and Spirit. I would definitely do it again. I really love 8:8 Medicine Meditation with Toks. MILENA
This was my first time. I found working with the energy of 8:8 interesting. I was moved by the Love. I am taking away connection and inner peace, Sri Yantra. I might come back. I found it a bit too strict for me but I understand the reason. JOANNA
I feel grounded, calm and heart centred. Sri Yantra came though strongly during the meditation last night. I was shown a beehive with it, the power of the cube, very balancing. My dress was white Sufi syle with golden edges and I was spinning, then the dress came off through my head and I became light. JOANNA – TEXT MESSAGE
I LOVED IT. I wanted to go with them. I find life on this planet very hard. I love connecting with other Beings, I felt activated. During the meditation I felt hurt in my heart and anxious. I am taking away hope, reassurance, love and connections. Both of the things I’ve attended with Toks have changed my life. After the first workshop I stopped smoking. NATALIE SKYES-ODD
I absolutely loved last night. I could not get to sleep, so much energy was buzzing through my body and I felt wired. Only just work up now!! Feel like I need the day to myself today and cocoon in my flat. NATALIE SKYES-ODD – TEXT MESSAGE
I found working with the 8:8 energy different and calming. I love Toks. I was moved by the instruments and sounds. I experienced positive vibrations. I am taking away with me a new experience. This is my first workshop. TAMARA GUMB
Toks – I have left the Skype call and wanted to thank you. It was an incredibly peaceful, healing and exciting experience. Thank you Hands of Light and the other Legions of Light. Blessings. KALISHA
I found working with the 8:8 energy nice. CHANTEL SMITH
I do feel more in tune with myself. I have lots of people seeking my assistance which is new to me. CHANTEL SMITH – TEXT MESSAGE
Thank you Toks. It’s such an honour to be lead through the sacred portals that you create. I can really feel the purity of the light that you channelled last night. Thank you Thank you Thank you. YANNI – TEXT MESSAGE
I’m still in a portal of Light, it feels so beautiful and soft. It’s like a bath of Light. YANNI – TEXT MESSAGE
Was really special to connect to everyone and the Beloved Higher Realm. The video was such a lovely surprise to this morning, very calming and settling. Thank you Toks! I feel like some Light Language was downloaded into my being. I am making sounds I haven’t before, feels like Actuatians/Alien. Feel blessed. Just experimenting and singing with it. Also 8 energy all around. MAXINE LICHTENBERG – TEXT MESSAGE