Happy New Moon & Sun in Cancer 27 June at 09:09 BST

HAPPY BIRTHDAY CANCERIANS

Happy 29 June   Ramadan begins / St Peters & St Paul’s Day

This blog is about sending you blessings and good thoughts every two weeks working with the natural true rhythm of the moon. It is in real time. Each workshop I hold is tailed to the Energy of Now Vortex so it is real, creating a laser beam of light that creates light shifts in your energy body that filters into your daily life.  The results are many and may be seen in the removal of disturbances around you, more confidence and courage, and greater spiritual growth which impacts on your professional success and private happiness.  You can always come back to this blog to read any invocation that you feel you want to and feel the healing energy the words impact on your life. Enjoy the healing pictures too.  If you want me to use one of your pictures and invoke a blessing for  you, feel free to email me your picture.  If you want me to send you healing please do so on my Facebook Fan page: Hands of Light Healing.  Blessings to you and thank you for reading my blog.  Love Always Toks Coker with Hands of Light.

On the Menu we have: 

  1. Invocation Blessing: Friday 27 June 2014   New Moon & Sun in Cancer    09:09 BST London   Element Water 
  2. Moon workshop details today 7pm-10pm For
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    more details and to book, click here:
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  3. THANK YOU TO HANDS OF LIGHT TEAM
  4. ENERGY OF NOW:   Friday 27 June 2014   New Moon & Sun in Cancer   09:09 BST London  Element Water 
    1. Rebirth, Emotion, Water Sign, Moon Water, The Crab
    2. Intuition, Family Time, Opening Your Heart
    3. Healing the World, Colour, Elegance, Crystals
    4. Gods and Goddesses of the Moon, Enchantment, Your Identity
    5. Career Vs. Personal Need, Dark Energy, Mercury Retrograde
  5. Feedback: Friday 13 Happy Full Moon in Sagittarius and Sun in Gemini
  6. Teaching Indian Head Massage Course
  7. Poems  QUOTES AND POEMS – NEW MOON IN CANCER
  8. Homework: Jekyll & Hyde Personality

Invocation Blessing for New Moon & Sun in Cancer   

Friday 27 June 2014      09:09 BST London       Element Water 

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We Greet You

With Symbols of Light

Breathing Deeply

Taking a Fresh Step for Your Life

We Greet You

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With the Sacred Moon Crystal

Burning 7 Candles of Light

Around the Sacred Chakra Wand

We Greet You

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We Greet You

With the Smile of Gentleness

Greeting You with Warmth

Embracing You with Kindness

We Greet You

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We Greet You

With Cheeky Sexiness

Embracing Your Flowing Body

Having Faith in Who You Are

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With the Portal of Graceful Enchantment

Gracious Movements of Beauty

Eternal Portal of Feminine Flowing Energy

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With the Crystal Vortex of Light

Anchoring Fresh New Beginnings

Nurturing and Protecting You

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With Our Presence

Recognising the Most Precious Gift

Your Presence

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With Your Tears of Pain

Flowing Down Your Face

Working with the Angel of Water

We Greet You

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With the Pillars of Water

Surrounding You

Washing & Cleansing Away Your Pain

We Greet You

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We Greet You

With the Magical Gala of Life

Celebrating Newness in a New Way

Making Everyday a New Beginning (Honin Myo)

We Greet You

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We Greet You

With the Energy of the Summer Breeze

Blowing Gently Behind You

Leading You Up the Stairs to Great Discoveries

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With the Great Concentration of Your Work

Creating Magical Transformations

In the Practical Actions You Take

We Greet You

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We Greet You

With Wisdom in Your Relationships

Developing Great Insights

In Your Law of Attraction

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We Greet You

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Calling Forth the Magical World of Hidden Tunnels

In the Labyrinth of Your Life 

We Greet You

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We Greet You

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Channelled by Toks Beverley Coker for the New Moon in Cancer 27/6/2014

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THANK  YOU TO HANDS OF LIGHT TEAM

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With this wonderful energy of the New Moon I would like to say A BIG THANK YOU to the amazing 2014 Hands of Light Team:  The 7 Legions of Light:  Gary Reich, Yanni Konstantinopulous, Merve Tufekci, Peter Li, Patric Nwaozuzu,  Colin McKay and Sandy Banfield.  Thank you wonderful Legions of Light for all your amazing work in promoting the work of Hands of Light.

Thank You Invocation to 7 Legions of Light

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I Thank You

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Sacred Vortex of Celestial Light

On this New Moon in Cancer, 27 June 2014 at 09:09BST

Palms Together Bowing with Gratitude

Honouring the Transformational Work We Do Together

I Thank You

I Thank You

Anchoring 7 Beams of Light

Directly at Each of You

Sacred Portal of Healing Light

Inspiring Your Greatness

Protecting You and All You Love

I Thank You

 I Thank You

With the Master Numbers of 7 and 11

My Birthday 7 July (7/7)

My Name ‘Toks’ adds up to 11

Powerful Multi-Dimensional Expansive Energy

Thanking You

I Thank You

We Thank You

We Thank You

We Thank You

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I Thank You

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Love and Deep Respect Toks Beverley Coker xxxx

ENERGY OF NOW:   Friday 27 June 2014   New Moon & Sun in Cancer   09:09 BST London  Element Water  

NEW MOON NEW CHANGE

Rebirth  New Moons are times of new beginnings, births,  rebirths and starting again.  They are times to refresh yourself.  To relax and review your life.    It is also a good time to begin a new thing or project that will reward your home life e.g. gardening, improving home, buying new cutlery. 

Emotions  You may feel very emotional around this time and you may find that you are prone to strong negative emotional swings like sudden anger, unexplained tears, unexpected depression, or feel a dark wave of energy loom over  you or in your presence.  Thankfully you can have positive emotional swings too like laughter, joy and happiness.

Water Sign  The Moon is the planet of Cancer and Water is the element of Cancer hence the strong emotional swings that may make you suddenly sad or happy. Remember water fits whatever container it is put into.  If is flexible, flowing and moves with ease.  It can nurture
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or kill.  Deep like the ocean you may have very deep emotions buried under a calm exterior; and one little thing can trigger an eruption.  What eruption has been triggered with the emotional water energy of Cancer in the past few days?  Be mindful in the next few days.

Moon Water Drink lots of water to help wash your emotions.  Drink moon water – sit water in a glass and ask the moon to energise it and then drink it and as you do so connect to the energy of the sacred moon.

Canerian Crab
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The Crab is the symbol for Cancer.  It moves sideways rather than come direct to the point; making it sometimes difficult to ask questions or ask for help.  The crab has a hard exterior for protection and a soft interior of emotions. If you feel like retreating away from pain that is you feeling like going into your Cancerian crab shell, protecting you from the pain of the world.  When you hibernate for a while and lick your wounds, you will come out to play, just do not forget to come out and play. 

Intuition Your intuition may suddenly be active as you feel your power of intuition making itself felt and known.  Your Unconscious Mind may make itself know. Pay attention to your instincts, your deepest feelings and needs.  Record your dreams and sense the messages in them.  Use your intuition to wash away what no longer serves you and cleanse your mind.  Imagine bathing your intuition in water as you would your hands.  Let the free flowing energy of water move your intuition and create flow in your life through your unconscious mind.

Family Time is very important at this time, as always.  You may find yourself reflecting on your family and the amount of time you spend with
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them.  New Moon in Cancer is a great time for spending with loved ones such as your family and close circle of friends.  The sense of security, safety and belonging to a family, a tribe, a group; is a strong need at this time.  There is family by blood ties.  There is family by friendship ties.  Each has its own energy, as well as, positive and negative karma. This is the time to heal family issues with the soft gentle forgiving energy of this new moon.

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Opening Your Heart
can be difficult for some people and this energy may force you to open your heart in a way you have not done.  It will twist and turn your heart till the pain and realisation of the experience forces you to feel a different way and see the situation in a different way.  Open your heart and allow yourself to feel vulnerable, to be intimate and to accept support from others.  Also offer and show support for others.  Really feel the energy of connectedness and belonging.  

Healing the Natural World means go out and walk on the grass, enjoy the sun, appreciate life, go for a swim or paddle your feet in water. Our family home is MOTHER EARTH so treasure it. Earth nurtures and feeds us. Let us give thanks. Let us feel the Global Love for Mother Earth and all living on it. 

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Colours 
Wear moon colours like silver, creams, ivory, sand, soft sand colours, soft browns, blue, silver-white. Wear silver shoes. Wear mother of pearl necklace.  Wear water colours like blue, turquoise and sea green. 

Elegance  Cancer is an elegant sign that loves the feminine business look that is gorgeous, powerful, co-ordinated, graceful, and elegantly impacting on whoever meets her energy.  I love the Cancerian energy of understated impressive elegance.

Crystals Work with the following moon crystals such as moon stone, howlite, hematite and mother of pearl. 

Gods & Goddesses of the Moon  Isis is Moon Goddess who has many names.  She is the star Sirius.  Her husband, Osiris, is the constellation Orion.  Artemis, Greek Moon Goddess.  Diane, Roman Moon Goddess.

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Enchantment
   Be enchanted with your life.  Feel and sense and dream your enchanted life.  We will journey to the portal of your enchantment to empower more magic into your life. We will activate our sexual enchantment and playfulness.  Dress in an enchanting captivating way whether for business or relaxation. The lady in cream is enchanting in her lovely business outfit.  The lady in red is enchanting in her lovely relaxing outfit.  Both ladies amplify the vortex of Enchantment in their style and manner.  I know these lovely moon Goddesses personally and I can vouch for their authenticity and integrity.  Thank you ladies. 

Your Identity is crucial around this time so be gentle with yourself as you allow the energies to mould you naturally and not resist any changes coming your way. This is a good time for loving and nurturing yourself.

Career Vs. Personal Need  Real Happiness is not just chasing money, having a big car, nice clothes and going to restaurants.  Cancer reminds us that we need to feed our private persons life, our sense of belonging, security, safety, vulnerability, and need.  Our push for results in our professional life will not bring us long term success or happiness if we do not feed our personal needs.  This is a good time to look at where you are now with reference to your Career Needs Vs. your Personal Needs. 

Dark Energy Be mindful of the dark energy of the Cancerian energy of deception what

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call the Jekyll and Hyde personality – please scroll to Homework, point 5, to read more about this energy. The Moon in Cancer also highlights mood swings and brings out a dark energy.  Be mindful of how this dark energy comes to play in your life.  Finding the Truth through the Darkness.  This really is a time to find out the truth of a situation that you have been journeying through that has been dark and torn you and your emotions.  It could be in a work situation where you have a negative energy of Cancer playing a Jekyll and Hyde personality.  This is not the time to give up on your own healing or your own life.  This is a time to see find the your truth through your darkness. Welcome in the healing of this New Moon in Cancer, very very very powerful.  More than you know or realise.

Mercury RETROGRADE will end in 1 July 2014 in the sign of Cancer. Carol Ann Ciocco, Astrologer  writes in her newsletter:  The 6-month Personal Planet Retrograde Parade is finally over!

As you may have noticed concerning forward movement in your life, we’ve been in Retrograde-land pretty much since the beginning of the year. First, just a note about the meaning of a Retrograde phase of a planet. The planets *appear* to move backward from our perspective on earth due to their orbits around the Sun. They don’t actually move backward (it would be very scary if they did:) But the *weird* sensation of watching a planet appear to move backward has had significance here on Earth since humans first looked up at the skies.

With Mercury Retrograde we are advised to just slow down a bit, review things, schedule less, don’t begin any big projects, and just integrate what you’ve been working on since the last Mercury Retrograde period. (For us right now, that time was the month of February).

So, since Winter Solstice (12/21/13) one or the other of the closest personal planets (Mercury, Venus, Mars) has been retrograde. It’s been like a relay race, as one passed the baton to the other, in sequence ::: 

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a diagram of Mars Retrograde by NASA

VENUS was Retrograde from December 21, 2013 to January 31, 2014.

Then, only 6 days later, MERCURY went Retrograde, from February 6 to February 28, 2014.

Then the *NEXT DAY* MARS went Retrograde, on March 1, 2014. (As always Mars Retrograde spans about 80 days or 11 weeks.)

Then Mars went Direct on May 19, 2014;

and, a few weeks later (as Mars was still slowly beginning its forward motion) …

MERCURY went Retrograde again, which is the current period: from  June 7, 2014 through July 1, 2014.

The parade consisted of: Venus – Mercury – Mars – Mercury, taking turns in Retrograde, from January through July. 

Venus and Mars only go Retrograde about every two years, while Mercury goes Retrograde 3-4 times per year. So the coordination of this moratorium on strong forward action – this ‘hiring freeze‘ – was seamlessly orchestrated it seems. We have been forced to cool our heels or be met with some level of frustration for pretty much the entire first half of the year.

The good news is, things start back to life on July 1; and the full Retrograde effect will be completely behind us by the end of July. At that point, both Mercury and Mars will be back to the place they left off before their U-turn to ‘run back to the house and get something they forgot’.

So August and September are green-lighted. Then on October 4, 2014, Mercury will go Retrograde again. The entire month of October would be hot anyway, since we have another Total Lunar Eclipse (the 2nd in a Tetrad spanning this year and next) What’s interesting is that Mercury Retrograde book-ends the two eclipses (and the Time Between Eclipses) to within days. This will be a special time of inward-looking and integration of the Cardinal Cross.

MERCURY SR October 4, 2014

TOTAL LUNAR ECLIPSE October 8, 2014  (Crystal Moon Meditation Workshop with Toks in London)

PARTIAL SOLAR ECLIPSE October 23, 2014 (Crystal Moon Meditation Workshop with Toks in London)

MERCURY SD October 25, 2014

So, for a few more days now we can continue to take it easy, factor in more time for mistakes and breathe, take things lightly. And here in the Northern Hemisphere we will enjoy a beautiful Summer; showing up revitalized and ready to move forward with a wind at our backs in August and September. 

Thank you Carol Ann Ciocco, fabulous Astrologer xxxx

FEEDBACK

Happy Full Moon in Sagittarius and Sun in Gemini

Friday 13 June 2014 is the First FULL HONEY MOON in almost 100 years.  It will not happen until June 2098!  Enjoy. 

We celebrated 13:13 and 13:13:13 on 13 Friday June 2014.  We all gathered together around 7pm to celebrate this wonderful evening.  We enjoyed meditating peacefully with crystals (clusters, skulls, aliens, wands), candle lights, an African Ankh, powerful healing invocation and prayer.  We happily share our completions and achievements; and eating lovely home baked cake from Maz and strawberries from Janet.  Thank you Maz and Janet.  The pictures capture the magic of the evening.  We went to Primrose Hill to drum, sing and dance around a tree under the wonderful full moon.  Caroline taught us some songs to sing as we danced round the tree.  People came to join us in our singing and dancing.  We laughed and sang so much.  Janet said “Toks I really need to teach you to sing.”  And I sang even louder!  LOL.  Thank you everyone who came to make this is truly memorable evening.  See you next time. 

               

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Friday 13 Full Moon 2014
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NUMBEROLGY OF 13 Did you know that we had a Friday 13 on 13/6/08? The number 13 is a very auspicious day for Native American Indians as it is a number of good fortune and good luck. The elders and chiefs always sat in a circle of 13 when they came together to make great decisions. It is believed and I believe you receive 13 blessings on this day. What 13 blessings did you receive on this rare Friday 13 Full Moon?

Teaching Indian Head Massage Course

2014 SUMMER COURSE – (6.30pm-9pm) two Friday evenings 18 July and 25 July at Morley College.

ONE DAY COURSE – (10.30am-3.30pm)  27 September 2014, 14 March 2015, 20 June 2015

I enjoy teaching and sharing my knowledge.  It gives me so much pleasure and satisfaction teaching eager students.   These lovely pictures capture the energy of students and you can read their testimonials about the introduction to Indian Head Massage one day course at Morley College, Lambeth North, London. Enjoy x

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What did I like most about the course?  The teacher, Toks. Very relaxed and friendly.  Lovely sense of humour.  Nicely run space.  I enjoyed giving Indian Head Massage more than receiving it.  I would recommend this class to everyone.  Excellent course.  Graham Scott    www.gardenworks.co.uk
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I liked most the fact that there were demonstrations and the opportunity to practice and be practised on.  Toks was enthusiastic and whole-hearted.  She is clearly very skilled in the sacred art of touch.  Florence Terry, Family Lawyer Solicitor and Mediator,   www.stopseeingred.co.uk 

I liked working from my heart with the hands on practice – transfer of energy – and touching people. Very relaxing.  Learnt a lot of techniques.  Would love to be on your mailing list.  Princess

The practice session and the one to one feedback from the Tutor, Toks, was what I liked best about the course.  Toks has a great way of teaching.  She does not make you feel bad when she is correcting you. I found her very patient and knowledgeable.  The course was very well paced.  Toks left me feeling confident about the practicing skills i learnt today.  Thank you.  Edward 

QUOTE AND POEM – NEW MOON IN CANCER

There is nothing so useless as doing efficiently that which should not be done at all.   Peter Drucker

May I become at all times, both now and forever

A Protector for those without protection

A Guide for those who have lost their way

A Ship for those with oceans to cross

A Bridge for those with rivers to cross

A Sanctuary for those in danger

A Lamp for those without light

A Place of Refuge for those who lack shelter

And a Servant to all in need.

By his Holiness the Dalai Lama

     

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Homework: Jekyll & Hyde Personality

  1. How angry have you become lately? Who has upset you?  Why? When? How? What happened?
  2. What did you learn about yourself?  About the other person?  About the other people involved?
  3. What action did you take to resolve it or make it better?  What action did the people take around you to help you resolve it?  Did the other person take any action to resolve it? 
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  4. Did you or the other person not bother to take any action?  Was there a misunderstanding?  Did Person B send a text and say ”I am very sorry that you have become angry and if I have caused this please forgive me, it it really is not my intention, but at least we can part ways without further hardship.  All the best for the future.  Love and Light xxx”   Did Person A feel apologised to or feel listened to or supported when receiving this text?  Did Person B really feel sorry if this was a pattern of behaviour of Person B of always being nice and then saying horrible things and making Person A angry and cry?  Person B has a ‘Jackal and Hide’ personality and always covers it up by being nice after the hurt has been inflicted on the wound is still raw and bleeding.  Where do you do this to others?  Where are you being a victim of a victim?  Where are you making someone a victim? 
  5. What is a Jekyll and Hyde personality?  This is someone with a double personality, each personality is different and totally opposite of each other and very distinct.  One side of the personality is nice, innocent, nice, calm, easy-going, prayerful, amicable, helpful, kind, respectful, honest, and understanding. The other side is not nice, is cruel, unkind with words, quick to anger, may even be calm and withdrawn in the deliver of anger in his speech and in the delivery is the cruelty and the violence and the horrible nature coming out with wicked and immoral action, words, thoughts and energy. This not nice side may appear calm yet be violent and
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    explosive in deliver and effect – the effect is to render the other person immovable, stuck, crushed and immobilised. For me this bad side is like bad energy, bad air, bad water, bad fire, bad earth, bad ether.  It is like a bad smell or stagnant water that breeds mosquitoes that feed on your blood, like a vampire feeding on your energy.  A Jekyll and Hyde personality is like a vampire that sucks your energy before you suck there’s.
  6. What REFRAME did you do in your mind to stop you being upset by the other person?  What action and thinking did you adapt to help you not be upset by this situation?  For me I accept my anger and my feelings and take ownership for them and allow myself to feel them.  Then I release them so as to free myself to be free to live my life and not be tied up to the energy of anger. 
  7. Sometimes we can change a situation and sometimes we cannot.  Sometimes a distressing situation can be healed and both parties become involved in the healing.  Sometimes whatever you do does not help to change a situation and you can agree to part ways.  But sometimes I ask is this always the best way?  I insist there must be a way of parting that is healing for both.  Not just one person turning their back and walking away without a dialogue or discussion to agree a way forward.  Sometimes I feel we do this when we do not want to face our hearts and open our hearts up to more learning and move love. Is it better to part suddenly and without warning?  What is your pattern?
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    The other side of anger or disagreement or misunderstanding is; if it is coming and triggered by past events.  You see, Person B may have issues that go back to chains of past events that have triggered the anger or misunderstanding so that the Jekyll and Hyde personality comes out to play and Person B attacks Person A to protect the wound in the heart and keep the layers around the heart shut and covered like an onion layer.  Life is so intriguing.  Person A and Person B cannot work together.  So sometimes the threat the anger rises in you may be from a trigger from your past that may be irrelevant to the actual situation in front of you.  It may be that it really is a time to be mindful of what we are angry about and what is triggering the anger because the person in front of you may not be the reason of your anger but the trigger of the anger – an anger buried in the past e.g. a divorce, a breakup, your daughter or son telling you that you are evil, a mother or father telling you that you are no good and shouting at you all the time, a mother or father walking out on you so you walk out on people whenever there is a conflict.  Is the anger irrelevant to what is happening now? I will bet that most anger is!  
  9. So the question I ask you – when you know someone needs something from you do you deliberately and/ or even unconsciously sabotage your ability to help them and thereby sabotage their progress in achieving something they want to achieve?….  and thereby control them?  Do you?  Really think about this question. 
  10. Really determine to resolve something with this energy of the lovely new moon. Give yourself a second chance. Give someone else a second chance.  Good Luck and wishing you success in all your resolutions with this wonderful emotional energy of the New Moon in Cancer.  Love Toks xxxx

               

     

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Hi, I hope you enjoyed this post. Drop me a line and let me know how you found it. You can also post a message, your answers and healing request  on http://www.facebook.com/handsoflighthealing

With Celestial Blessings and Love Toks xxxxxxx

© Toks Coker 2014

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