Conflict Resolution

😀  Today, 24 October, a Full Moon day, his Holiness the Dalai Lama had a dialogue with the Unites States Institute of Peace (USIP) Youth Leaders, from various countries, in his residence in India. They talked about Personal Resilience and Inner Peace, Social Cohesion and Building Bridges Across Divides.

He listened to the Youth Leaders sharing their experiences and asking questions about their experiences of war, disillusion, death, disappointment in human behaviour, conflict, suffering, pain, education, and much more.

EMPATHY: He talked about his sad feelings and his inability to do anything since, he himself has lost his country. He empathised with the youth, as he had a very similar experience to many of them. They all listened with respect and reverence to him. He was so real in his emotions and words. He joked and laughed, to soften the pain in everyone, and in himself.

Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck. Dalai Lama

HAPPY FULL MOON IN TAURUS HEALING CIRCLE
HAPPY UNITED NATIONS DAY
HAPPY ORIONIDS SHOWER


CONFLICT RESOLUTION

I was struck by the fact that this day he is having this conversation is a FULL MOON, with a fixed GRAND CROSS and the and the ORIONIDS SHOWER. It is also the United Nations Day. The Grand Cross is about conflict resolution or not! And here we had a discussion happening about conflict around the world. So apt on many levels. Energy really is powerful.

The FIXED GRAND CROSS is the cross of DISCIPLINE, anchoring the words: steady, focused, steady, consistent, patient and determined.  The FIXED SIGNS in the Grand Cross are Taurus, Leo, Scorpio and Aquarius.

The Fixed Grand Cross is like the mountains, always standing strong looking. It is immovable, yet it moves. It is about SQUARING each other, looking into our faces (like boxers do) and fighting, having discord, creating disharmony. It is not listening to others. It is thinking only of yourself. It is looking at how you can hurt, poison and create suffering to another. It is enjoying the suffering a person is going through and intentionally afflicting suffering on a person.

This GRAND CROSS brings challenges with it. You may feel pulled in different directions and yet you may feel stuck at the same time.  You feel you are at an impasse – you are at a cross road – and you are not sure which way to go or what to do.  With the FULL MOON we have double whammy opposition. Yet you seek BALANCE in the CONFLICT RESOLUTION in all the stubbornness, resistance, selfishness, lack of kindness, etc.

The Fixed Grand Cross looks at how we can sustain things during conflict.

It works on an INDIVIDUAL SOUL LEVEL. What can the individual do for humanity? It is, each person looking at what they can do to help in the CONFLICT RESOLUTION. How can we bring in love, joy and peace?  How can we live love, joy and peace?  How can we experience love, joy and peace? How do we maintain love, joy and peace?


INNER PEACE: The Dalai Lama joked that God is sleeping and resting, so there is no peace. He says it is time to develop our very own inner peace. God wants us to develop our own inner peace. It is not easy, he said, but despite the problems, you try to find hope and develop your inner peace. He said changing society is not easy. Inner peace you cannot buy. It is an inside job.


MIND: We need to develop our mind and our emotions he said. This is a wonderful potential we have and can do. We need to look at things from a different angle and perspective. Being a refugee creates new opportunities. Unfortunate situations bring a blessing in disguise, he said.


MEETINGS: One meeting will not solve everything. Every time you fail, you continue to make effort. Keep forming meetings and going to meetings. Never give up. One day the meetings will yield result. He urged the Youth Leaders not to give up.


ONENESS: The Dalai Lama said we are all the same and equal. He stressed the importance of ONENESS OF HUMAN BEING.  He said scientist have not found a difference between the brain of people because of their colour or religion.  He said the caste system is wrong. We are all equal.


POSITIVES: He made some very valid points laced with humour and laughter. He mentioned words like freedom, forgiveness and compassion. He talked about emotional intelligence and change. He believes in India’s form of Non-Violence, like Gandhi practised. He said violent nature is not the way forward.  He is a Tibetan Buddhist and relies on himself. He talks about self-reliance. We need harmony. He talked a lot about the importance of education and said in 30 years we will have a more holistic education.

This indeed was a very Full Moon discussion with a Fixed Grand Cross, I thought. There is extreme tension in the world and between people. There is indecisiveness. There is inability to produce concrete results even with extraordinary effort. Yet you do not give up.  But you have to know what you have to let go of to proceed. You have to know the results you want. Yet in the confusion and chaos around you feel like you are in stewing pot and you are being steered and steered around the pot, with a spoon or by magic on its own!!!  Yet you feel stuck! So much confusion around.


QUESTIONS: There were many questions. The main question was how do you forgive? How do you move on despite feeling despair?  How do you continue when you have lost hope? How do you continue when the people you know are letting you down? How do you behave when you are not accepted by the people? How do you forgive the pain and suffering? He talked about compassion and forgiveness, which he said is not easy to practice.


FORGIVENESS: This reminded me of my very own course: 8-WEEKS of FORGIVENESS.  Join me on this wonderful course, where, already, in four weeks, participants have made some shifts in their lives. Everything is recorded so you will never miss a learning and practice. Even if you are too busy you can buy and listen later.  You will find so much information on how to practice forgiveness. You will also start to understand why certain things are happening to you. Click this link to read the testimonials and learn more about the course:  Forgiveness. Or simply buy the ticket here: https://bit.ly/2xwjOm5


This Full Moon we have questions:

  1. What are you letting go of?
  2. What are you quitting?
  3. What am I shining the light of the full moon on today?
  4. What are you celebrating?
  5. What do you need to celebrate?
  6. What are you blooming?
  7. What do you want to realise?
  8. What are you blossoming?
  9. What type of Energy do you want to manifest today?

 

You can look at my Full Moon video on Facebook

https://www.facebook.com/handsoflighthealing/videos/913874678807825/


Affirmation today:

  1. I am enough.
  2. I love me.

This is a time to reset your SOUL COMPASS to navigate to the North Star, the Divine Engine.  Be ready for your Cosmic Consciousness, your Cosmic Alignment, your Cosmic Downloads, your Cosmic Brain Power, your Cosmic Decisions, your Cosmic Doorway, your Cosmic Pathway, your Cosmic Knowing, your Cosmic Blossoming, your Cosmic Blooming and your Cosmic Manifestation with this Full Moon.

Full Moon is today. The time of the Full Moon will be 5.47am today in London.  I will be holding a meditation from 7:30pm.
Wednesday 24 October
Full Moon in Taurus – Sun in Scorpio
Hunter’s / Harvest Moon
Elements – Earth/Water
Ticket – Full Moon

Join us at the FULL MOON MEDITATION to do this. https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/the-full-moon-in-taurus-alchemy-gathering-tickets-41919687915

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Facing Death of a Parent

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Happy New Moon in Libra on 9 October.  A time for new things. A time to let go the ‘dead’ weight, to free yourself of heavy karma, which may have come about through death or loss.  Today we discuss Facing Death of a loved one, such as a parent.  We enter the New Moon shedding the fear, pain and suffering of death. We strip ourselves away ready to seed something new, something wonderful, having learnt our lessons well. What new lessons will you have learnt by the New Moon in Libra?

FACING DEATH

Facing the death of a parent is something new, if you have not experienced the death of a loved one or a parent before.  You are never ready for death, no matter how prepared you think you are.

11 - Remembrance Sunday - Deep Love and Respect for Lives LostDeath takes you always by surprise. It is an almost paralysing emotion. Grief is so deep and can be long lasting and devastating. It can also lead to depression or even, in extreme situations, suicide.

FACING YOUR MORTALITY

There is the point where you first think about your own mortality, when someone dies. Usually, you are young, when this happens. There is the point when you think you are going to die. Then there is the actual time when you realise you are going to die. Then there is the time when you actually die. The time when you first came across your own mortality e.g. age 7 years, may be a long time to when you die e.g. age  77 years. So death tends to happen long after your first thought about your own mortality.

PREPARATION

Always when there is a death, there is a burial. Usually before the burial there is the 2 - All Souls Daypreparation for the funeral, which may happen immediately or months later.

The Moslems like to bury immediately, while Christians are not too fossed about burying immediately. In Nigeria, when a person dies, there is so much to prepare. The burial may take place a month or longer after actual death, so the body is kept in the morgue for a while.

NEW SEEDING WITH THE NEW MOON IN LIBRA

As with all preparation, I invite you to a time to seed new things on 9 October, New Moon in Libra. With all the talk of death, we let go what no longer serves us. We honour, we revere and we respect. We gather in the land of the living, as opposed to the land of the dead. We acknowledge a time to contemplate and communicate with the silence of our mind and get the clarity we seek. We begin again, starting afresh. Join me:Hindu Gods

  • TIME TO SEED NEW THINGS
  • Tuesday 9 October
  • Time of Meditation: 7:30pm (London)
  • Time of New Moon: 4:47am (London)
  • New Moon in Libra
  • Element – Air
  • There is so much to cover on the New Moon. Come join us.
  • Link – New Moon

MY FATHER’S BURIAL

My father’s burial was over 3 days. He was laid in state and everyone came to see him. There there was the ceremony and rituals performed around the country because he was a chief. A goat was killed and its blood spilled on the entrance of the driveway, before the car carrying his coffin could drive into the house to park.  29 - Beheading of St John the Baptist

Lots of cows, chickens, goats, etc. were killed.  There were over 1000 people at the funeral, which was all day.  The service at the church was very long. The service after the church was also very long – by this I mean the prayers at the party celebrating his life. Then there was the dancing with the coffin.  The men carrying the coffin danced and danced and danced with him in his coffin. We followed behind dancing. Once he was buried we went to celebrate with an elaborate party. So in total we had two or three outfit changes. Very expensive funeral.

My father did not leave a will so all the 7 properties and land where taken by so called relatives and tenants. To fight would have meant death.  Charming. Nigeria can be aggressive and brutal.

THE WILL

Within a family or business, there is the concept of a Will. Was one left? Was one not left? If one was left, will it be contested? Will the family members fight for the inheritance, whatever it is? Will the death bring out war or peace within the family or organisation?6 - Transfiguration of Jesus

Some families fight each other for the will. Others do noting. Others play a waiting game. Others cannot be bothered.

One of the main things I have noticed is greed, anger and stupidity arise to the surface with death of a loved one. 

Questions arise such as: Will I get what I feel I am due? Will he or she get more than me? Will I feel abandoned? Unloved? Unappreciated? Will I be laughed at? Will she / he get more than me?

Some people just want to make chaos with a death. It is not enough for them to sit still and allow the process. They will go to court. They will sue. They will make things hard.

YOUR VIEW

What is your view on death? What is your view on death by war, murder, rape, killing with intent, manslaughter? What is your view on death of a loved one? your mother? your father? your child? your baby? your sister? your brother? 

Will you make sure you write your will by the end of this year? Will you take action now before you die suddenly? You see, we do not know the time we will die. Being ill does not guarantee death. 28 - Memorial Day

  • My mother was told she had 3 years to live after her cancer and has lived over 15 years, and is still alive. Thank God. 
  • Patric’s mother was told she had 5 years to live after her brain tumour, and has also lived 20 years. We just buried her in Grenoble this week. I am writing from her study in her bungalow in Grenoble, France, with the Alps, the mountains surrounding us.  It has been an emotional week for everyone.

TRIGGERS

loss separation divorce death abandanmentDeath has a lot of triggers and a lot of emotions.

You have the negative emotions of sadness, grief, loss, depression, why me?, anger, rage, envy, separation, abandonment, jealously and more.

You have the silence and the blatant aggression around you. One person is silent and withdrawing, the other is loud and forceful. People react to death in different ways. 

Whatever the trigger the pain is real to the person in pain. With a New Moon Meditation you call in peace and healing to soothe your pain and suffering. You ask for healing on a deep level that transcends the negative emotions and you get it.

FUNERAL

There is the next part where there is the burial, the prayers, the ceremony and the tears. At a funeral you can always see the dynamics of the family in motion. You canIMG_8793 observe and make judgement. However, I ask you to err on the side of caution. Would you like to be judged the way you are judging the people you are observing and judging? Is it fair?

It is very important to be respectful at a funeral and learn the costumes of the people burying their loved ones. In Nigeria we were bright colours to celebrate an old persons death. In the Jewish tradition I was told to wear black. I was so glad I asked before turning up in my bright colours!!!! How disrespectful that would have been for them. Always ask the protocol for each funeral so you can show your reverence and respect for the departed Soul.

Remember prayer is important on many levels. Asking for protection and blessings is a wonderful thing to do on a New Moon. Join us on the 9th October.

DEATH AND FORGIVENESS

In my 8 Weeks of Forgiveness, I covered the topic of Death and Forgiveness, in the second week. It was quite intense and deep. A lot of information is shared on the course.  If you want to learn more and get more information; then, please join us by Healing Through Forgiveness clicking this link: 8-Weeks Forgiveness. You will find this is a very good investment in your life for shifting blockages and stuck energy.

We have done two weeks out of 8 weeks. Everything is recorded so you have not missed anything. Each topic stands on its own with reflective homework to do, it you want.

This course has started and already in the first two weeks we see massive results in the participants. 6 October 2018

WEEK ONE

“Within 1 hour of finishing Week 1 of Toks’ Forgiveness Course, a job materialised for me! It was something which I very much needed and have been waiting for! Thank you Toks and Hands of Light xx”

“During the first session of Toks’ Forgiveness Course, all of a sudden, layers of my awareness were lifting, one after the other – I could see what was going on underneath; I could see what my energy was saying and doing, it wasn’t nice to see but I needed to see it. I needed to see what was really going on and I realised how much I needed to do forgiveness. Also, by simply being a witness to myself, to what was happening, I could feel a transformation.”

WEEK TWO

“In the week between Week 1 and 2 of Toks’ Forgiveness Course, I have become so much more aware of my thoughts, words and actions; when my energy and thoughts think and act in a way that is not nice or respectful, I am more present to this. This has prompted me to keep reminding myself to keep doing forgiveness. It’s so important and it helps me to keep my energy light and positive instead of being negative and judgemental etc.”

“The day after the second session of the Forgiveness Course, I felt a lot lighter inside of myself and for my life. As I tuned into this feeling, I saw Toks waving incense in front of the screen, during the second session. I remember feeling its effect then, and I feel it now, even more so. It’s cleared away debris from inside me that was ready to go. Thank you Toks and Hands of Light xx”

  • TIME TO SEED NEW THINGS
  • Tuesday 9 October
  • Time of Meditation: 7:30pm (London)
  • Time of New Moon: 4:47am (London)
  • New Moon in Libra
  • Element – Air
  • Call in Balance, Harmony and Commitment
  • Link – New Moon

New Moon in Libra

Leadership with Equinox & Full Moon

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HAPPY EQUINOX. Will you play with me?

23 - Saint Pio of Pietrelcina

Happy St Pio of Pierelcina please pray for me. Amen.

HAPPY FULL MOON IN ARIES HEALING CIRCLE

Every Full Moon we address the following:19 - Full Moon in Aries - Sun in Libra (25-9-18)

What are you celebrating?
What have you completed?
What has been brought to light with this Full Moon?
What abundance or blossoming or ripening has come through with this Full Moon?

YOU CAN:  Attend in person or Attend online or Receive the recording the next morning.

Toks will be channelling the energies with her Crystal Singing Bowls


With the Full Moon in Aries and Sun in Libra in particular, we will be processing the following Energies:

BALANCEToks Coker
Libra asks, are you truly balanced?
Where are you balanced in your life?
Where do you need balance in your life?
Aries answers, full of ego, “I am always balanced.”
When in fact, you are not.
The Full Moon highlights the reality of where we truly are.

LEADERSHIP
Where are you standing right now in your life, in terms of leadership?
Are you feeling in control of your life?
Or are you being led by others?
Is it time to look at who is leading your life?

ATTENTION
How did that bring you attention?
Are you constantly seeking attention that your value of yourself is based on the attention you receive?
And if you don’t get that attention, you scream, for more attention, or perhaps not?

HEALTH
Have you been so busy that you haven’t had time to just stop and relax, and take time for you, in a healthy, supportive and sacred way?
What Full Moon action could you take?
Attend the Full Moon Gathering with Toks.

FORCEFUL
In your stubbornness, are you too weak or too forceful?
Are you pretending to be forceful or truly forceful?
Is it time to acknowledge what being positively forceful is in your life rather than negatively forceful?
As you stand in your radiance, are you realising that you are playing small, shooting low and feeling stuck?
This Full Moon helps you to stop letting yourself down.

FUNDAMENTAL DARKNESS
What does the light of this Full Moon reveal to you about your fundamental darkness?
Fundamental darkness is anything negative in your mind, body, spirit or emotions that holds you back, that stops you from rising and being happy.
As you activate the positive energies of Aries and the balance of Libra, you are able to transform the poison in your life to medicine.
What do you to transform?

TESTIMONIAL

“I am love. You are love. You bring the best of my love out of me. I love you. x” Lesley Lansdown

ARIES QUOTE:

“True freedom means to be beyond the influence of people and possession.” Viktor E Frankl, Man’s Search for Meaning

TESTIMONIAL

“I love the work with Toks. I feel I have grown so much since working with her.” Kathryn Drysdale

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Element: Fire/Air

This Full Moon Alchemy Gathering is a Time:

1. To Celebrate Yourself

2. To Celebrate your Completions

3. To Be a Great Being of Light

4. Of Abundance and Ripening

5. To Celebrate Completeness aka the Fruition of Action. This is much like the Summer Time when Flowers come to Full Bloom.

TESTIMONIAL

“Toks’ work is of the highest frequency. It’s strong magic so be prepared to let go of what no longer serves you in the boldest possible way.” Kai Reich


What to expect….

1. A lot of healing, sometimes deep chakra balancing and alignment.

2. You become aware of your completions and achievements with this Full Moon.

3. You dress up the Goddess or God in you. You honour your sacred resonance.

4. Working with Guided Meditation, Invocation, Sound, Crystal Singing Bowls, Alchemy, Crystals, Cards and more.


All of this will be done, and quite possibly more, all within a Safe Healing Circle with guided interpretation and lots of laughter!

TESTIMONIAL

“I very much admire and appreciate Toks’ work. I feel like I am stepping into my power and let go of what no longer serves me, very cleansing in order for me to grow. ” Genevieve Capovilla

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FREE DISTANT HEALING

For when you need healing, support and strength in your life. Drop me a private email, with your name, age, where you live and what your request is for the free distant healing. Remember to title the subject of the email, “FREE DISTANT HEALING REQUEST”.

If you are asking on behalf of a friend, relative or animal please ask their permission first. The act of asking already activates the healing.

Alternatively, please feel free to go to my Hands of Light Healing Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/handsoflighthealing/.
3 Days before each Moon, a Pinned Image will be put up advertising said Moon. Feel free to put your healing request as a comment on this picture.

Toks sends healing for 3 nights, from the day of each Moon, which you will receive when you are sleeping or when you sit quietly for 15 minutes and call it in. Make sure you drink lots of water after you’ve received the healing.


ARIES QUOTE

“When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves.” Viktor E Frankl, Man’s Search for Meaning


TESTIMONIAL

“This meditation was channelled so vibrantly, it overpowered my low vibrational state. I am being assisted in shedding, shedding, shedding myself. Thank you.” Maxi Lichtenberg

MAY THE FORCE BE WITH YOU

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A bit about the Full Moon…..

Mother Moon is pregnant with life. There is power and magic in the air. The moon is round, making the atmosphere pregnant with emotion and desire. The cup is full and the cup ‘runneth’ over. As such, it is a time full of emotional energy which is very high. It is a time to face these varied emotions.

Everything is amplified with the energy of the Full Moon e.g. emotions, passions, love etc. You may experience strongly charged emotions with abundant, sometimes uncontrollable feelings; which can lead you to lose control in a positive or negative way. Remember – the choice, as always, is yours.

What you perceive as your reality depends on what you are feeling. At the time of the Full Moon, this can cause a lot of confusion if not checked. The gravitational pull of the Sun and Moon on our beloved Earth set these extremes up. This can be a hard time to find balance. A time of extremes.

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Toks Coker is a teacher, healer and coach.

She sees clients privately in St Johns Wood, in person, or over the phone, or on line via Skype or Zoom. She enjoys teaching abroad, as well as, channelling and invoking her moon meditations, every new moon and full moon.

TEACHING: Toks is a Certified Teacher, Crystal Healing Teacher, Universal Healing Tao Certified Instructor and Energy Trainer. Over the years she has taught many healing and empowering classes. She teaches Indian Head Massage and Face Rejuvenation at Morley College.

SERVICES: Microcosmic Orbit, Inner Smile and Healing Sound. She is a Crystal Healer, an Arcturus Quantum Healer, a Quantum Alchemy Crystal Bowl Practitioner, a Spiritual Healer, a Toa Hands Practitioner, an Angel Card Reader, an Energy EFT Master Practitioner, a Positive EFT Practitioner, an EMO Master Practitioner, an EMO Practitioner, a Modern Energy Trainer, a Pranic Healer and Reiki Healer. Her Coaching certification includes: Time Line Therapy Practitioner, Certified Practitioner of Neuro Linguistic Programming; Certified NLP Coach Practitioner and Practitioner of Hypnosis.

ADVISOR: Toks is an Advisor with the BRCP, and can be booked for speaking event

Toks has been holding Moon Alchemy Gatherings for 20 years now. Toks Channels Invocation Blessings that Inspire and Encourage One’s Own Personal Spiritual Journey. They are Channelled in such a way that it is as if she is talking directly to you…..to the very Heart and Soul of you. Join her in one of her gatherings or private sessions.

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Forgiveness

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8 Weeks of Forgiveness

Duration: 8 weeks

Start Date: 27 September

Day and Time: Thursdays, 7:30pm

Book yourself here:https://bit.ly/2xwjOm5

Watch the video here: https://youtu.be/Gl7ju3_JrYc

 

TESTIMONIALS FROM THIS CURRENT COURSE dated 6 October 2018

This course has started and already in the first two weeks we see massive results in the participants. 6 October 2018

WEEK ONE

“Within 1 hour of finishing Week 1 of Toks’ Forgiveness Course, a job materialised for me! It was something which I very much needed and have been waiting for! Thank you Toks and Hands of Light 🙂 xx”

“During the first session of Toks’ Forgiveness Course, all of a sudden, layers of my awareness were lifting, one after the other – I could see what was going on underneath; I could see what my energy was saying and doing, it wasn’t nice to see but I needed to see it. I needed to see what was really going on and I realised how much I needed to do forgiveness. Also, by simply being a witness to myself, to what was happening, I could feel a transformation.”

WEEK TWO

“In the week between Week 1 and 2 of Toks’ Forgiveness Course, I have become so much more aware of my thoughts, words and actions; when my energy and thoughts think and act in a way that is not nice or respectful, I am more present to this. This has prompted me to keep reminding myself to keep doing forgiveness. It’s so important and it helps me to keep my energy light and positive instead of being negative and judgemental etc.”

“The day after the second session of the Forgiveness Course, I felt a lot lighter inside of myself and for my life. As I tuned into this feeling, I saw Toks waving incense in front of the screen, during the second session. I remember feeling its effect then, and I feel it now, even more so. It’s cleared away debris from inside me that was ready to go. Thank you Toks and Hands of Light 🙂 xx”

Forgiving Yourself Receiving Blessings

What is Forgiveness?

Why do Forgiveness?

Who do I Forgive?

Why should I?

Who wants to Forgive me?

Who should I Forgive?

What areas can I ask for Forgiveness?

How do I know it works?

Why should I bother?

So many questions on Forgiveness……

Remembering the Power of Forgiveness

Cleansing Ancestral Karma

Cleansing Your Soul

Cleansing Your Life

Activating you Infinite Possibilities with Forgiveness


TESTIMONIAL:

“I saw Toks, and in just 3 sessions, she helped me break free from overwhelm, negative ties and the confusion I was living in. She helped me remove all the unnecessary weight I was carrying on my shoulders in order for me to gain clarity. Toks helped me forgive my past without judgement and cut all negative chords with my past. Thank you for receiving me without judgement. Thank you for helping me climb out of the powerlessness I was living in. And thank you for teaching me how to listen to my inner voice and reminding me to love myself.” Angela

Forgiveness is a Powerful Spiritual Practice, a Really Practical Practice, a Deep Emotional Practice, a Healing Physical Practice, and a Fabulous Mental Practice that helps you to:

  • Clear Your Path

  • Overcome Challenges

  • Remove Obstacles

  • Heal Rifts

  • Manifest with More Flow and Ease

  • And Much More

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HOW DO I KNOW IF 8 WEEKS OF FORGIVENESS FOR ME?

Have you tried and tried and tried, to ………… and it just doesn’t seem to work? Or is there progression but it seems to be quite challenging and lacking flow?

Do negative patterns keep happening, throwing you off course, keeping you down? Do you feel there is a weight on you, keeping you stuck and sad?

Have you simply had enough with an aspect of your life and just need a breakthrough? Have you had enough of failure, doubt, low self-esteem, etc.

Are you constantly wondering WHY this has happened to you or is happening to you?

Do you find a pattern in your life or your family life or a generation when you sit an reflect? This pattern seems to always be there, not changing, not moving?

Always alone. Always broke. Always a loser. Always last in line. Always ignored. Always ill. Always misunderstood. Always…. something.

You’re in LUCK.

You will practice over 8 different Forgiveness Practices, which you will be able to apply in various areas of your life. One practice may work for you and another may not. Your experience will reveal it all to you.

Each week has a topic, which will focus on a specific area, e.g. money, relationship, karmic patterns. It will be flexible to suit the needs of the students who have booked the course.

Forgiveness (Peeople)

Forgiveness involves using very Powerful Methods to clear away these obstacles in your life, such as obstacles to your:

  • Happiness
  • Money: Financial Stability, Financial Abundance
  • Business / Career / Work: Growth Of Your Business. Progress in Your Career. Promotion in your Work.
  • Intimate Relationships: Finding Your Life Partner, Marrying Your Life Partner
  • Children: Starting A Family
  • Health and Fitness,
  • Flow: Mental, Emotional, Spiritual, Physical
  • Chakras
  • And More…..

TESTIMONIAL

“Hi beautiful Toks I just wanted to let you know I’m doing the 8 days of Spiritual Practice from Cornwall as I’m on my holiday: I catch up with the recordings each day and am one day behind. I’m LOVING the course; I feel connected to everyone else doing it too, please send my love and light to very one on the Zoom course. The energy of these meditations and lessons are so so powerful. I’ve managed to achieve balance with my eating etc and feel divinely protected. My energy is better and I’m trusting more and being in the moment. I am still struggling to forgive some people who have wounded me and hurt me in my life, as I have deep post-traumatic stress disorder, and this has impacted my life terribly, but I’m trying. Please feel free to share this with the rest of the group this eve. I will be able to join on Friday, Saturday and Sunday live.” Natalie


HOW DOES FORGIVENESS WORK?

You do not have to have belief, for Forgiveness to work. You do need to have sincerity.

When you say you are sorry, you want to say it from your heart. You want the person to believe the power of your words. You want them to hear what you say and FORGIVE YOU.

The same applies to you when someone is apologising to you. You want to feel they are apologising from their heart and they mean it. You want to be able to FORGIVE THEM.

“And when you stand praying, if you hold anything against anyone, Forgive them, so that your Father in Heaven may Forgive you your sins.” Mark 11:22-25


A BIT ABOUT KARMA……

There are so many intricate layers to our karma, that we cannot, even, begin toHealing Relationships fathom them. We can never know what we have done in our previous lives. What offences, pains and sufferings we have caused to others. What chain of events were started.

We can barely recall what happened last week, much less the many varied moments, a year or more ago. We cannot remember all the times we have hurt others, intentionally or unintentionally, in a small way or a big way. We cannot. It is too vast to think off.

Luckily, we do not need to, for Forgiveness to work.

Forgiveness is one of the Highest tools, if not the Highest tool, to cleanse and clear karma. It can transform these negative energies into blessings.

Forgiveness is the solution to clearing both your own personal karma and your ancestral karma.


TESTIMONIAL

“I have been having sessions with my Spiritual Mother Toks for 15 years. Her sessions always helps me see my career path CLEARLY and remove any blocks that are in my way. Some of these sessions have taken place actually on the stage before/during or after my show. She always helps me to ground, grow and channel my creative energy in the most powerful way. I love you & thank you Mummy, your daughter Jocelyn xx xx xx x ” Jocelyn Essen, Comedian, Actress, Writer, 3 Non-Blondes, Little Miss Jocelyn


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WHY DO BAD THINGS HAPPEN?

This is the part where we talk about HOW ANCESTRAL KARMA AFFECTS US. You may or may not believe this. Keep an open mind. Sometimes a closed or stubborn mind blocks our progress and happiness.

What do my ancestors have to do with it? The actions of your ancestors affect your life right now. Yes. Let me explain further.

Is it possible that one of your ancestors did something negative to another, and this caused suffering to them and they have been holding a grudge since? So now you and your family are suffering now in this lifetime. If you do not do something about it now, it will continue into the future generations.

Make it your mission to stop the bad family karma on yourself, your children, your family and the future generation of humanity. Do something good to clear karma for yourself, as well as, for the human race.

If a dress is torn, if you do not fix it, it will rip. Eventually the dress will be destroyed forever, because the dress was never fixed. Do not do this to your life. Do not ignore your own Forgiveness practice. This goes deep.

When you look around can you see the generation upon generation of karma repeating itself? The negative karma is blocking a lot of things such as:

1. Expressing yourself to your partner
2. Receiving promotions at work
3. Getting deals over the line to secure stability and growth in your business
4. Having a harmonious relationship with your family members
5. Having children
6. Being happy with yourself and your life
7. And more….

Makes sense, right?


TESTIMONIAL

“I attended Toks 8-Days Intensive Spiritual Practice to Release & Heal and I felt it really helped to open me up spiritually. The tips and information she gives, is explained in a clear and easy manner. I would certainly recommend her courses to anyone wanting to reconnect to themselves or boost their spirituality.” JT Jefferies


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THE COURSE

Book yourself on the course. Start your Forgiveness practice now.

Even if you have done a Forgiveness Practice before, this 8 Weeks of Forgiveness, will amplify and refine the work you have done before. There will be more karmic cleansing, more release, more freeing and more liberation.

If you are doing this for the first time you are in safe hands. You will be blown away by the exercises and the insights gained about yourself and your life.

This is an 8-week course, where we meet once a week, where you get teachings, you discuss, you share and you practice.

Forgiveness to enlighten your Soul and Spirit. Forgiveness to invite in more happiness into your life. Forgiveness which clears blockages and stagnations in your life. Forgiveness that cleans out negativity and brings in positivity.

Forgiveness, which works on a deeper level, than you ever thought possible; as long as you practice. You have to participate to get the results and the goals you want. Forgiveness enables you to have more ease, happiness and consistency in your life.

If you are not able to make any particular week, that’s fine. Do not worry. It is recorded. Recordings will be made available for those present and those not present. So you will always be there.

This course will be sold throughout the 8 weeks of the course. As you can come it at any time and you can receive all the recorded lessons once you have made your payment.

My prayer for you on this 8 Weeks of Forgiveness is for your deep happiness and fulfilment.

8 Weeks of Forgiveness

Duration: 8 weeks

Start Date: 27 September

Day and Time: Thursdays, 7:30pm

Book yourself here:https://bit.ly/2xwjOm5

Watch the video here: https://youtu.be/Gl7ju3_JrYc


TESTIMONIAL

“I attended two of Toks’ live healing gatherings last year (travelling from Wales), they were both profound healing experiences and catalysed huge positive turning points in my life. My most treasured outcome, from the first gathering, was that I was somehow freed from something that had been holding me back – my deep desire to be an artist, which I had never allowed myself to experience in this lifetime. Just over a year and a half later, I have nearly completed my first collection of 55 energy healing paintings, and am living my dream of being an artist – which has opened a profoundly joyous and fulfilling new channel and chapter in my life.” Hannah Imogen Jones

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What is practical?

Happy New Moon

We Will Be Celebrating the following:

HAPPY NEW MOON in VIRGO

NUMEROLOGY OF 9  (9/9/18 = 9:9:9)

NAVRATRI (9 Day Celebration of the Divine Mother: Hindu)

NEPTUNE CLOSEST TO EARTH

WHAT IS PRACTICAL?

Practical is something you do. It is what you do. It is what is tangible in the here and now.

It is what can be seen and what can be touched. It is what you can touch and hold. It is solid. It is the money in your hands. It is the car you are driving. It is the food you are eating. It is the water you are swimming in.

There is a structure and form to it. It is manifest in your present reality.It is the now not the future or past. What is here in the now.  It is visible. It is touchable. It is real. It is realistic. It is logical. It is firm. It is structured.

Practical is manifest. Visible and in front of you. There is evidence of its existence. I repeat, Practical is manifest.  It is fact. What is manifest is practical. Listening to music and dancing and singing is manifesting sound and movement with practical action – dancing and singing. Practical is what you can do and what you do that is seen and can be touched. 

groundedPractical is the DOING of something. Practical is the USE of something. It is doing. It is using. It is applying yourself to do something like writing this blog.

Practical is hands on. It is getting things done. Ideally, effectively and efficiently. It is doing something that yields results. It is practical. It is active, active participation. It is live.

Practical is applying something. What are you applying?  What are you trying out?  What are you doing that is practical and real and rewarding? Getting people to the Moon Gatherings is rewarding and practical. Making an effort to turn up to the MOON MEDICINE MEDITATION is practical.

Practical is workable, it is possible, is is reasonable. It is useful, helpful and constructive.  Learning to drive is a practical application that will serve many things in ones live. Being helpful with others is a practical action people see and experience. Being constructive sees a building being built or a land being turned into farming land. Saying yes to marriage is a practical thing, as you then have to prepare a lot of practical realistic things to make it all happen. 

This New Moon in Virgo is about what is practical and looking at your life from a practical point of view. Let us apply some practical guidelines to our lives. What is real and what is not. What is feasible and what is not. What works and what does not. What is tangible and what is not.

PRACTICAL IS NOT….

Practical is not fantasy. It is not abstract. It is not theory. It is not visualisation. It is not thinking. It is not dreaming. It is not thinking. It is not visualisation. It in not day dreaming. It is not wishful thinking. It is not imaginary or imagination. It is not airy fairy. It is not invisible. It is not visionary. It is not in dream world. It is not fiction. It is not sitting and dreaming. It is not sitting and hoping. It is not sleeping and expecting things to just happen. It is not loafing around. I hope now you understand what Practical is not. Perhaps you can come up with your own list of what is not practical. Share it with me. I look forward to reading it.

The New Moon in Virgo is about looking at where we need to be a bit more practical. Are you living in a dream world, always believing it will be done and years later it is still not done?

Perhaps you have been saying you will clean the house and you realise you have not done so for months, perhaps it is time you got a cleaner? Perhaps you should have done your tax return and you have not……

Perhaps you have been saying you will mow the grass and you have not had time to do it because you have been too lazy. Then perhaps you need to get up and take action and do it yourself. If you imagine it being done it will never be done. Practical action is what is needed.

WHAT PRACTICAL THING IS SERVING YOU?

What in your life is practical? Is it serving you? Is it honouring you? 

Is it yielding results that are beneficial to you? your life? your business? your relationship? your health?  If no, then stop doing it. If yes, then continue doing it. Congratulations if it is yielding results.

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SEEDING

When you plant a seed it grows into plants, flowers, seeds, and food. You bury the seed deep in the soil of Mother Earth and she delivers many things useful to mankind. How very kind Mother Earth is.

What new thing are you seeding?  Making an effort to learn something new is applying yourself; as you are seeding a new ability, a new gift, or a new skill. What practical thing have you done today? Can you list 8 practical things you did today?

I DO NOT KNOW HOW TO SEED and you are talking about Seeding. How do I seed when I do not know how to seed? Good question. To answer this question, you need to be clear on what you are wanting to seed. You may not know how to seed. You may not know how to manifest.

You start with an idea and as you grow the idea in your head, you begin to sense a new budding within you. You begin to believe it is possible. You have expanded your limiting beliefs and suddenly realise they are growing so much they burst open like a fireworks and vanish in the sparkle of the light. Suddenly your ‘expansion’ turns into you expanding your thinking, your doing and your space inside you. You decide it is time to change. You have to change not others. You ‘Divine’ a way forward.  You accept your life and you honour your life. Let us continue…

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When you seed on the New Moon you are planting a seed energetically. You are creating a future with the seeding. You are making manifest a desire and a want. You are seeding to plant a manifestation. Your seeding is your thought. It is your written notes. It is the actions you take after the seeding with pen and paper. It is the actions that manifest into results and completions. Seeding means you are beginning. Are you ready to begin planting and seeding a new way, a new life, a new skill, a new home, a new car, or a new way of being.

The New Moon is about SEEDING to MANIFEST later. You seed with the Energy of Now and you await its Manifestation in the Future. How wonderful.

What are you seeding now for the manifestation at the full Moon in two weeks. What have you seeded so far? What will you seed with this New Moon in Virgo?  What will you manifest by the Full Moon or by the next few hours or days after the New Moon? The possibilities are endless.

Sometimes we cannot seed because we are overwhelmed. We become confused and distracted. We do not know what to do first.  We may even make wrong decisions. In my Newsletter I write about the emotions many have been going through and becoming overwhelmed by them. This New Moon is about looking into our lives in a realistic practical way. It is looking at what is working what is not working. Are you ready for the change in your life?

Let us seed constructive things with the New Moon and see them manifest and build. Seeding means we want something to yield dividend, yield profit, yield manifestation. 

What will you seed with this New Moon? A new project? Throw away things or situations that no longer serve you? Remove negative people who stop your practical application to grow your business?  Allocate a new time table so you spend your time more effectively?  Decide to take action to create manifest possibilities and opportunities for yourself?

Give yourself permission to be still.  Allocate and allow the space to be in a sacred space. Gift yourself a present to be there for yourself to take time out and use it constructively and productively to clear your mind and nourish your Soul.  Amen. Amen. Amen.

Come join us on for our NEW MOON Medicine Alchemy Meditation.

We Will Also Be Celebrating The Following:

1. NAVRATRI (9 Day Celebration of the Divine Mother: Hindu)

2. NEPTUNE CLOSEST TO EARTH

I will cover that at the gathering. Come join us xxx

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When you are seeding something practical there is one great gift you have to give yourself. That is the GIFT of FORGIVENESS.

Sometimes we block our own progress and our own happiness when we are holding on to some memory, resentment or anger. Then we wonder why we do not get what we are wanting.

We have to be open to forgive our self and each other. There is so much to cover on this topic.

I am doing an 8 week course, on Zoom on Forgiveness.  You will not miss anything, as the recordings will be there, for you to go back to, once you have paid for it. So you can catch up on what you have missed. Better still be there and attend all weekly classes. There will be a lot of practical exercises and teachings, I have gathered over the years, to help you forgive and activate more happiness and manifestation in your life. I ask you to decide on who or what you want to forgive. The list may grown or reduce during the 8 weeks. It will be a work in progress for all.  So allow flexibly for your expansion, growth and stubbornness. I will be starting after the New Moon and will cost £150. Book yourself on it.

HAPPY NEW MOON – See you at the Moon Medicine Meditation at 6pm on

9/9/18 = 9:9:9

9/9/2918 = 9:9:11

HAPPY NEW MOON

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